Difference btw crush and love

@harry89 (2332)
India
September 15, 2010 4:39am CST
do u think that there is any difference btw love and crush????? according to me both have the same meaning....... but some people say that they r different words........ i think if u love a person and u dont get him/her then u will call it a crush and if u get him/her u will say that its love........it really depends on the situation but both the words have same meaning.... have ur say
4 responses
@Metatronik (5899)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Sep 10
In my own opinion they are far different meaning. Because when you say crush, usually you are admiring the person by his/her looks or physical appearance. Of course that is the first thing you have seen it on the person. When you say love, you are being in love of the person and able to develop it during your friendship as you accept for who and what he is despite of the flaws whether he is ugly or handsome. When you are being in love with your crush it all means that because of the fact you admire his/her appearance you were able to accept for what she is and able tolerate everything even his/her wrong doings. Aside from that no matter if he/she is brainless but because of being good looking again that is tolerable for you. But of course there are some instances that some people are being turn off with their crushes because of something that they could not accept or tolerate. My boyfriend is not actually my crush and take note before we develop during our friendship I have a crush on his friend. He knew it when we were together already. But it does not matter to him as long as I was very happy about it. He knows that I can't describe him as handsome but at least he is not that cute. He knows my crush as well until now I mean the gay one that I have met in some fitness center. I even introduced him to my boyfriend and he even told my boyfriend to join the aerobics since he was the instructor of it.
• Pasay, Philippines
10 Oct 10
Thank you very much for appreciating my post.
@harry89 (2332)
• India
10 Oct 10
well, you deserved this.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
16 Sep 10
you can say love occurs once than a crush can happen on anyone, and speaking of crush it brings pain, than love you can fulfill your pleasures. they are somewhat similar, but crush feels a little different its just a wanting wish, than love is already a fulfilled wish.
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Love is totally different from having a crush on someone. Crush is just an attraction or admiration on someone. You are not serious in your feelings or not sure of your affection. But love, it is more than affection or feelings. Love is when you love the person even though you are not totally attracted to him or her. It is beyond just attraction and admiration. It is total acceptance.
• United Arab Emirates
15 Sep 10
harry,,,, you can have crush on many but love happens for only few not all..... If you have cruch on someone then you will not be worried about them but if you love them you will be worried.... Cruch is generally for a short period and you will realise that whereas love goes.... true love is for life :)