How do you feel when your GF married to your friend?
September 16, 2010 4:25am CST
I want to share my experience regarding failure in a love relationship. Going back in the year 2008, I have a girlfriend. We were in relationship for almost a year. I really trusted her and also she trusted me. We feel at home with each other and until now I can remember those days that we were together happily. The course of our relationship changed when I moved to another place to continue my study and we can only meet once a month. The place where I am studying is too long that is why I never went home every week to save my time. But we had our good communication. However, there were three consecutive months that I never met her because I am too busy in my class in doing my thesis. Later, I heard of an unfortunate news that changes my life. Rumor said that my girlfriend is pregnant. I was really put in surprise because I did nothing. First, I did not believe on the issue. Until such time that I went home and she confessed to me that she's pregnant for two months. I really cry on that incident as if I want to punch her but I was not able to do. The worst thing was that the father was my friend in childhood. What is your reaction when you are in this situation?
17 Sep 10
hai ubermensch... i can feel what are thingking...it`s so hard and difficult to forgot her..is her still your girl friend or ex your girlfriends? iam speechless if i were you...i never do anything to her, i trusted to her but she betrayed my trust...i can not speak off course... maybe i needs a time to make me alone to thing about this case and off course it can make me never communcate with the other
17 Sep 10
It is natural to feel very mad and angry about what happened. But we have to accept the reality and move on beyond anger. It will only consume us if we continue to hold on to it. There's so much in life that has to offer you. Just forgive your ex-gf and move on. Let it serve as a learning experience for you.
16 Sep 10
oh man that sucks. you just have to remember that everything changes, everyone changes. this event is very unfortunate but you have to let go of this. soon you will find someone for you. remember that you can't control other people, but you can control how you react to certain situations. this can be a good lesson to you, to your girlfriend and other people involved. learn from it and learn to let go. everything will be ok.
16 Sep 10
I will be in pain and sorrow, that's for sure. But, as a man with future vision, I won't stay sad for a long time, and move on for the seek of my own life. That kind of accidence (what your former girlfriend was on) could not be changed or altered. Perhaps you could still marry her, but I believe the feeling inside your heart won't be the same as the previous one. I believe that God is now testing you, and telling you that she is not yours, and of course God are still preparing for the right person for you. So, move on, and forgive her with your deepest love. That above, is what I will do if I am in your shoes, and in fact I've ever been there before.