Will you still trust your friend?

Philippines
September 17, 2010 8:11am CST
If your friend tells or promises you something,and he/she knew that you're counting on it,then failed to do so. But after some explanations,he/she was able to gain your trust again,and again made the same promises. And again,failed to do so. What will you forgive him/her? Will you trust him/her again?
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7 responses
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
yes, i will trust him/her again because everybody commit mistakes and everybody deserves a chance. how can u not forgive him/her for what he/she has done when the bible teaches us to love others more that ourselves.
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
that'll be hard to do so the next time around. but if she/he's really your friend, you can give chances. love covers all mistakes. trust must be regained once lost. but it wont be regained without you giving out chances.
@crazy100 (71)
• India
17 Sep 10
i would forgive but will be more cautious the next time ... its common for friends to break promises , but its the intensity of friendship that still keeps people together
@bulbub (119)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
It depends on his or her promises. If she/he did again talk to him/her. I think she/ he will gonna do his/her promises.
@sinliong (88)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 10
That will really depends on the explanations he/she gives me. Is it acceptable or not, is it real or not. We can not judge another people just from their mistakes. We should also examine the reason why he/she failed to keep his/her promise. Of course, we must consider the scope of the problem too. Braking promise in a critical/emergency moment surely can not be tolerated. Even it doesn't mean that we can punish somebody for that too, but that would be really regretted. Maybe I will still be able to forgive him/her, but to trust him/her again, that will need further and deeper consideration.
@loktibrad (107)
• Slovak Republic
17 Sep 10
Vibrant dont trust the thirsty one. I know it is not good help but try to do the same for him/her. Then he/she will realize how you could feel and maybe after that if he/she realy regret what does he/she done, then you can trust her/him again.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Hmmm.. I think your friend doesn't realize that he/she is creating a bad habit. But what can you do? Perhaps you could just continue the friendship but not to expect anymore so that you would no longer get hurt whenever he/she would make promises but can't make them true. Less expectations less hurts.