What do you think when your new discussion have no respond?

Do you get responses? - What if your topic have got no one interested in? What will you do? Will you feel sad when you get no responses in your new discussion?
@yspmyl (3438)
Malaysia
September 18, 2010 8:48am CST
What will you feel when your new discussion have no respond at all? It should be the hot topic that everybody will like, but it really have no one to answer at all. What will you do? Will you feel sad when your world goes down to the drain?
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@sender621 (14956)
• United States
19 Sep 10
It can have a few discouraging moments when discussions i have started have no reponse yet. i don't take it to heart though. No everyone is interested in expressing their views on every topic. We respond to what motivates us. That is good enough for me.
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 10
You are strong and you do not easily affected by this type of minor thing I believe. You are always motivated. I will learn from you!
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Hello! definitely I will feel bad and some sort of sadness! But I will not surrender...I will do my best to have the best discussion here at mylot! I will do anything...considering every single data and areas here in mylot! So to all the newbie...just continue...and soon you will see your fruit as a mylotter!
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
Keep working hard! You will get what you want! That is what I believe. But I do not think that I am working hard enough to reach my target.
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@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
18 Sep 10
Obviously not good thinking. I am not very happy when ever I don’t get answers. Some time I create very good discussions and need the responses desperately. But unfortunately this is not possible each time to get the response in each discussion.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
We all doing something and hoping that there will be return in someway. But sometime we get disappointed when things doesn't follow what we want.
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@CJscott (4184)
• Canada
18 Sep 10
I think wow, someone added to that interest fast. So fast everyone(except my friends) missed I posted, if I get no responses what so ever for over a week I think, wow, that was a bad title.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
Haha! If your post have really no one responded to, I would say that that is really a bad title, after a week.....
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@CJscott (4184)
• Canada
20 Sep 10
I have a few with a bad title, or maybe I put them in the wrong topic who knows, I think I have 5 discussions in which I never got an answer all over 4 months old. Cheers.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
I think 1 is already too much for me, you have got 5 that no one responded to? That is really a lot. I think sometime, when you post a topic that other cannot really understand will also lead to no respond at all..don't you agree?
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• Indonesia
18 Sep 10
i think it's ok if there's no one respond maybe the discussion that i made it's not interesting and bored,,,so the thing i do is try to get new interesting discussion :D
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
You are a happy go lucky guy. I think you won't feel sad or something when you got no respond at all on your new discussion, right?
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• Indonesia
20 Sep 10
hahah yes i am because for what i sad? if there's no response and im sad i think im just sad for nothing...try to get a interesting discussion that's what i want to start now in discussion,how about you?
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@jugsjugs (13045)
19 Sep 10
When i first come on here i had a few discussions and still have them on here with no response,these are the ones that will stay here with no response until a person answers them.There is away to get a response and that is to send the discussion to a friend and get them to respond to that discussion,that way there maybe other people that will end up answering it.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 10
Hi! That is an good idea, we can send the discussion to our friends asking them to answer it...Did you actually doing this? I am just quite new in mylot and I think I will wait if my new discussion have no feedback after a month or what then I will do that...
@Hatley (164507)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Sep 10
yspmyl when I was first here I had several but as soon as I r eally really responded to all the friends on myfriends list I had more responses than I ever expected. in other words respond to others then they will see you are wo rking here and really want to mylot and you will get tons of responses. try it and you will see it wor ks. You scrath their backs then they will scratch yours to use a silly metaphor. i felt sad so I made a discussion asking why I could not ge any responses and learned I needed to be active and show my friends that i REALLY wanted to mylot and that I read and responsed to their discussions.so then i never had one discussion that did not g et at least five respojnses and some are in the hundred category now. Respond to your friends and they will respond back.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
Hi! Hatley, I get what you mean. I will do as what you say, respond to friend discussion. Actually I did to respond to friends discussion, but I still do not get responses for some of the topic. I think my reputation here is still not good enough..I did feel a bit scared to start a new discussion, I scared that I will received a lot of responses, and I can't reply to them in one time to all of them. I will need to use a lot of time to respond to them one by one, some may be take me week to respond. This distract me a lot. So to post or not to post? It make me think and think to start a post.
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• United Arab Emirates
18 Sep 10
I did post a discussion some time back. Seoul, south Korea...I am coming. But this discussion has not had any comments. I do not feel anything about it but i did just think that there are no myLotters from South Korea. The worst think is that a discussion cannot be deleted.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
Yes, sometime we might post something that no one are interested at, and it end up with no respond at all. I think a good title can make people respond to your discussion..yeah, I have seen many discussion discuss on we cannot delete our own post...
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• Philippines
18 Sep 10
I would feel a bit sad if no one responds to my discussions. However, I would feel disappointed if no one responds to my topic when it's a question that I would like to know the answer of. I do have a discussion just yesterday and no one has answered it yet. I guess either no one has the answer or no one has the same interest as mine. Aside from discussing several topics, I also use myLot to find answers to some of my questions.
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
That is what I will do as well. I don't put so much hope like you do. I would hope that just a few people reply to my post will do. And if no one respond to my discussion, I know that it is a bit too complicated for them. So next time I will make it more simple so that people can understand it better.
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@Miner49r (569)
• United States
18 Sep 10
I think to myself, ..."Wow!..that one really bombed". I try not to take it too personal but do feel a little let down. Not all posts will garner a reply. I usually sit and wonder what was it that caused the flop. Was it the question,.... was it how it was phrased,..... was it politically incorrect, ....was it against the TOS and no one will touch it............. well you get the idea...LOL
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@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
Ahah! yes, you have trigger me on the idea. I might have posted something that have break the rules and no one dare to reply to it, but wait, it was not being deleted after few day.. So, it should be fine and obey the rules. I think it might be too tough for mylotters to understand?...It might be true...
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@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
18 Sep 10
When any of my discussions do not get any responses(luckily I have been able to survive that scare and have at least ONE response on all my discussions), I do feel upset about many things. First, it says that my discussion was so very bad that no one felt like posting even the negative thoughts on it. Second, it reflects that I am not a good person when it comes to creative attractive headings for my discussions. Third, I should have some more friends who would stay with me no matter what. Happy MyLotting
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 10
I wouldn't think that it is that scary when no one respond to my discussion...:) I never thought there will be no one responded to my post one day, I believe one day, sure will be someone who will have the same interest that discover my post and responded to it. I am an optimistic person and I will not really feel sad if my new discussion have no respond all. I will just let it be and believe someone will respond to it one day. I too agree if we have more friend here, we would probably will get at least one respond to the discussion.
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@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
30 Sep 10
Yes that time I feel very bad. When I getting no any response for my discussions. I wait for getting at least one response. When I see that their will be no any response then I give my discussions link to one of my friends and then he give response to this discussion. Because I know well if your discussion will not be responding by at least one person then it will not be credited and counted in your postings.
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Hi! It is great that your friend will help you with discussion that is no respond. I think this is the only way that we can do so that the new discussion will have some one responded to. And our work will not wasted just like that.
• United States
20 Sep 10
So far I have never posted a discussion that did not get at least one response. However it by no means important enough for me to consider my world going down the drain for such a insignificant, trivial occurrence!
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 10
You are so good at posting a good new discussion I believe. You have been so long mylot and you never get no respond for your discussion, I am really admire you!
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
If my new discussion receives no response at all, I definitely would feel a bit sad and ignored. It could make me wonder why nobody's interested or willing to comment about my discussion. This is one of my main reason why I rarely start discussions. In fact, the last discussion I started was years ago. I just wouldn't want to feel being ignored especially if I really need some advice. And I wouldn't go that deep like begging for responses or what. That's just it. Best of luck
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 10
Wow! So all this while you are just reply to others discussion? I don't really like to start a new discussion if I do not have a good idea and a interesting topic. I will try my best to give a nice topic so that I will get responses.
@rosekiss (30269)
• Eugene, Oregon
19 Sep 10
Fortunately for me, that hasn't happened to any of my discussions as of yet. It doesn't mean that it will never happen, but so far so good. I don't start all that many discussions anyway, as it is much easier for me to respond to other discussions, as I don't have to think about a topic to discuss, which can be difficult at times. I think though that if it would ever happen to me, I would be disappointed, but then I would come to the realization that I just didn't post an interesting enough of a discussion to get responses. I wouldn't give up though, and just hope that the next one I post, will be more interesting and get responses. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 10
Wow! It never happen on you? I guess you must be very good in posting new discussion. You must be know how to post an interesting and easy understand topic. Me too, I prefer to respond to discussion than to start a new discussion, at least I don't need to worry whether I'll be able to reply to all the responses from mylotters when respond to discussion but not when I start a new discussion. I believe when we do it seriously we will be able to do it well enough.
19 Sep 10
i'd think that my discussion was not so good xp
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 10
Yeah! To have a good discussion we have to put in more effort and make the sentences longer so that others will have interest to read on. If you do not really explain it, it will no get good respond either.