WOMEN--What happens when all the money goes???

September 18, 2010 7:16pm CST
Having a girl these days as a guy you have to be financially bouyant. I mean lets face it every girl wants her man to be able to take good care and also provide well for her. Now the confusing thing here is that they tend to fall in love with the money and not the man. My question is what happens when all the money goes away???? LADIES-Would you stay with your man??? GUYS-Do you think they ll stay?
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10 responses
• Canada
19 Sep 10
Girls do want a guy who can provide by here but it doesn't mean that she relies on him for money, she could have a good job as well. They don't necessarily go for the rich guy and fall in love with the money instead.. Personally I just like to have a guy who has a job, because it shows he works hard and is going somewhere in life. It's not that I wouldn't love a guy who is poor though, is my boyfriend lost his job and lost everything I'd still be there because I know him and know what he's capable of. It's not about the money for me, it's the fact that he works hard that I like.
19 Sep 10
Thats nice to hear. But let me tell you something about some guys. When they are broke and have nothing they tend to love the lady with them, But later on when they start becoming rich and succesful they tend to look outside the home for other women-The general nature of a man-When he has the money he spends it on women and booze. I dont know about your country but it happens sometimes here in mine, If faced with this kinda situation,what are you gonna do?
• Canada
19 Sep 10
I see how that can happen, if he has money he'll think he can get any girl he wants. That's not how my boyfriend is though, so I don't think I'd be faced with a situation like that. He's gettin a lot of money.. But he's never turned to other girls because of it.
23 Sep 10
Ofcourse a guy with all the money would definetely have inflated ego, thinking he can get whatever woman he wants in the world, come to think about it he is 99.9percent right. mayb 100percent.lol. Anways good to know your man aint like that. Thanks for the response and happymylotting!
@monalily (380)
19 Sep 10
well a woman doesnot really fall in love with the man money. I know proof of this. I know someone who is going under a very difficult financial situation.She is married since 15 years and his husband have never let his wife work. the husband only ern for the family.. now situation have become so delicate when the husband was fired from work as the work wasbankrupt. evreyday the man could only earn 100-150rs and this was not sufficient for living, food etc. But the woman remain with her husband, she didnt left him even under this extreme delicate financial situation. Instead a few weeks later she decided to do a work to earn some money. this is life
19 Sep 10
She is not american thats why.(sorry) see tht is what happens in the wester world and i know how true my statement is. take it anywhere. also they have been together for a very long time. i love that couple,i pray they bounce back to their feet soon.
19 Sep 10
I m begining to love that couple. i hope they get back on their feet agaain soon.
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
19 Sep 10
yes this is true. But the thing is that when you are in love with some one. You should share the good time and bad time both. The bad time mostly comes with no money in hands and that time you will leave the person. That will only breach the trust of the person and make him incapable to fight with bad time.
23 Sep 10
I love this, sharing good and bad time with the person you love! Buut some arogant women wouldnt wanna hear that. They believe in for better for better,and not for better for worse, thanks for the response friend
• United States
19 Sep 10
I imagine this stictly pertains to gold diggers and not true love. As when we fall in real love we would expect certain changes would not taint the actual love. As for women who leave because there no long isn't any money; I would have to question if it was the money or the guy they truly loved.
23 Sep 10
yes ofcourse it pertains to gold diggers. we all know that a large number of the female population are gold diggers, you know its so bad that right now the virus is spreading to the male population. but in any case its all good. thanks for the response.
@teamrose (1499)
• United States
19 Sep 10
Depends on how you entered the relationship. If the relationship was based on what you can and have provided for her, then NO, she will not stay. If on the other hand the relationship was based on mutual friendship, love and shared interests and goals, she will not only stay, but work with you to get out of the financial difficulty.
27 Sep 10
Exactly. Depends on what the relationship was based on. If its about the money then when it goes,she goes.
@marguicha (91863)
• Chile
19 Sep 10
I did!
27 Sep 10
Thats nice. I bet you did not regret it. Thanks for the response friend.
19 Sep 10
I'd stay with my man regardless if he has money or not. I mean I've been in a relationship were my ex-husband was so afraid to loose our wealth having a baby so he filed for divorce. Money is important but it should not be the center of one's relationship.
19 Sep 10
Wow,i think your ex wanted to leave you and he just looked for an excuse. Sorry if that hurts but it is the truth, I mean who leaves a woman because of a baby,Thats cowardice.Where i am from the sound of a new baby brings joy and happiness to the entire extended family so even if there is little or none and even if the man a is a useless husband,when he has got a child he will become more responsible and fill the need to provide for the family working hard and doing whatever it takes.Lastly The most High God blesses the fruit of his labour because of his hard work.Sometimes even because of the baby!lol I love your concluding response though-Money is important but it should not be the center of ones relationship! Thanks for the response friend and happy mylotting
@kharlav (1673)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I am not really a materialistic person. I stayed with my ex boyfriend for 6 years even after I found out that he didn't really have a lot of money. I found out about a month after we met.
19 Sep 10
Your ex boyfriend? i hope it was not the fact that he didnt have that you finnaly got fed up and broke up with him??
@carolscash (9501)
• United States
19 Sep 10
There are some girls who love the money and would leave if it wasn't there. However, most women fall in love with the person and would stay even if the money were not there. My husband and I both have worked for years just to make ends meet and not have extra money, so I am sure that he knows that I would be here if there was not money. We have never had a lot of money so it is not an issue with us.
19 Sep 10
yer most girls love the money. Im glad money aint an issue with you guys. just keep living the good life my friend. Your husband would be so proud of you, Thanks for the response, Happy mylotting
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
19 Sep 10
Off course a true lady will stay with her man , for better as for worse , that only if married , now if not married , not even fiancee , then i guess every girl has the right to aim higher , but usually when word goes out that a girl is interested only in monney , and the entourage she has finds it out , then it would be pretty dificult for her to find prince Charming with the looks , she might find Prince Charming in Fortune , but in Looks to be the Bill Gates Geek ( hehehehe lowl ) Have a great EVENING Aby
19 Sep 10
very funny. I like the idea of a true lady. But if i were to throw some light i dont think there are true ladies around anymmore i mean look at the values of our society today, Look at what the western world has done to the others,they have corrupted the minds of ladies,this is wyh i say there aint no true lady anymore. Every girl aims higher aby,but thats not true love,thats falling in love with the money. i just hope ladies should start loving men for who they are and not what they are! thanks for the response aby and happy mylotting!