if you are angry do not take decision

@akn1961 (1035)
India
September 20, 2010 11:53am CST
if you are angry ,you loose your temper and you are out of mind ,it is better you should avoid taking decision ,chances are there that you will take wrong decision ,and you will regret later ,i avoid taking decision when i am angry what about you?
9 responses
@nophie (2338)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 10
ya, when you are angry, you lost of your control to your emotion..so dont take decision when you lost your good minds
@nophie (2338)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 10
ya, when you are angry, you lost of your control to your emotion..so dont take decision when you lost your good minds
• India
21 Sep 10
yes you are absolutely right i am totally satisfied your thoughts. but this is very difficult because when i am angry than nothing understand. thanks for your views and i will follow it.
@annavi23 (6306)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
i do agree. when you are really angry,you can say or do things which can cause trouble more. but if the person you are facing with knows you best,they will not believe what bad things you may say. if they are really true to you and loved you for who you are,they would also understand what you are having through. it's not right to talk when you are rally angry,that's why we should always have time to think things through and give space for those people we are angry with.to avoid misunderstandings and regrets in the future.
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
21 Sep 10
Yes, you're right. But sometimes, it's difficult to do that. we often want to tell about any things in that situation.
@dodo19 (33320)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Sep 10
You certainly do raise a good point. When we are mad, we make unwise decisions, decisions that we wouldn't normally make. When we're angry, it's definitely not a good time for decision-making.
@rappeter13 (5298)
• Romania
20 Sep 10
You are right, when we are angry we cannot control ourselves and tend to do stupid decisions, which will make no good. So it is better to calm down, reevaluate the situation, analyze it and only then take a decision. That way we will know that we made a rational decision and not a hot headed one. Because when we are angry we only see the other person or the situation black or white, we don't see the nuances and that way our decision will not be balanced and well reasoned. So we only have to make decisions, when we are calm and relaxed, because only this way we can judge things clearly, and make the best decision we can.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
20 Sep 10
Same here, I won't make any decision, or do anything rash if I am not in mood. I might not consider any option clearly. Well, that is our human nature. We should consider what is the best in certain situation.
@GemmaR (8526)
20 Sep 10
You are absolutely right there. If you make decisions while you're angry, you're like to do things that you will probably regret when you have calmed down. If you are angry with somebody, you shouldn't confront them until the initial anger has worn off, as you might end up saying something to them that you would regret. If you say things in the heat of the moment, there is every chance that you might lose your friendship with that person.