if you are angry do not take decision
September 20, 2010 11:53am CST
if you are angry ,you loose your temper and you are out of mind ,it is better you should avoid taking decision ,chances are there that you will take wrong decision ,and you will regret later ,i avoid taking decision when i am angry what about you?
21 Sep 10
i do agree. when you are really angry,you can say or do things which can cause trouble more. but if the person you are facing with knows you best,they will not believe what bad things you may say. if they are really true to you and loved you for who you are,they would also understand what you are having through. it's not right to talk when you are rally angry,that's why we should always have time to think things through and give space for those people we are angry with.to avoid misunderstandings and regrets in the future.
20 Sep 10
You are right, when we are angry we cannot control ourselves and tend to do stupid decisions, which will make no good. So it is better to calm down, reevaluate the situation, analyze it and only then take a decision. That way we will know that we made a rational decision and not a hot headed one. Because when we are angry we only see the other person or the situation black or white, we don't see the nuances and that way our decision will not be balanced and well reasoned. So we only have to make decisions, when we are calm and relaxed, because only this way we can judge things clearly, and make the best decision we can.
20 Sep 10
You are absolutely right there. If you make decisions while you're angry, you're like to do things that you will probably regret when you have calmed down. If you are angry with somebody, you shouldn't confront them until the initial anger has worn off, as you might end up saying something to them that you would regret. If you say things in the heat of the moment, there is every chance that you might lose your friendship with that person.