parents teach us wrong things

India
September 21, 2010 9:22am CST
some times our parents teach us wrong things in life , it doesnt means that our parent be correct always mostly our parents teach us how to bribe ,coz they does this some times in front us too......which we also follow to get things done , willingly or unwillingly as far s we in their shadows, i feel very guilty to be a part of this , i always want to rectify those things which i did in the past , did anything like that happened to you guys , say it frankly
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@gjabaigar (2101)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
They maybe right or wrong but at the end of the day they are still our parents. They are also humans which are also not perfect. Of course I do some regrets and disappointments from my parents we are humans. By the way, why we are blessing to our parents? Because we are or we are should be the right answers or the solutions to our parents mistakes. If we want it done right or want to change something we have to do it on our own self. Great investment
• India
23 Sep 10
yeah no one is perfect , but y do we feel wrong and they dont , is that we are immature or they are used to it , and want us to do that tooo , i mean the mistakes they had made
@gjabaigar (2101)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
To challenge us for what we want to prove to them for what we know that we can live life in a better way than their way. Life itself is full of challenges and that's what we have to live for. If they are wrong or right prove it. If you are wrong or right prove it. Unless you can have all that proves and you are showing to them a better life they may change their views to you or may not but just a matter of hurting their pride that wont last forever. Some of those challenge from our parents to us are just a form of reverse psychology. This challenges can make you strong and have a better life or make improvements.
@SinRealm (559)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
Parents aren't perfect. My parents are still stuck in the past, they do not approve my ways. My mother would rather have me turn into a nurse than some guy who earns more online. Plus she trusts my sister more despite my sister lacking a lot of common sense. And my dad... He's so old fashioned, he's teaching idiotic things. And to think he's into construction. My parents are teaching me to be something that is ideal for them. I followed them and here I am now with a screwed up life.
• India
23 Sep 10
whats ur age , dint you try anything to get rid of that , and my dad too the same, now a days i dont listen to him, so he never talk to me , what about you my friend
@SinRealm (559)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
I'm 24 and still living under my parent's roof... All because I did their way of living. :(
21 Sep 10
When you are young, you have to believe all that your parents say to you. This is part of the survival of the species. In the same hand, you have to learn that your parents are not perfect and that they can be fallible. Again, survival, evolution and all of those things which we don't like to admit to. Its the worst day when you realise that your parents are not the god like beings you thought, then it is the best day for your parents to realise that you have a capable rounded outlook who can make judgements for themselves and they can go out into the world and cope.