Am in Confusion

India
September 21, 2010 9:32pm CST
Am in love with a Girl for the past 6 Years . She expressed it first but i neglected at that moment . After leaving her only i understood that i miss her a lot . I`m trying in a lot of way to catch up with her . My Heart is willing to join hands with her but my minds are blocking me that i should not express it to her.
13 responses
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
what are you afraid of expressing your love to her??? you know that she loves you, so why not express your love to her too...your feelings are mutual so why confused? be man enough to her, go to her and express your love before you will realize it, its too late....
• India
22 Sep 10
I am afraid because , if i express my love and she neglects , i cant even think about it . Even if i have not expressed it to her i can live with a feel of love with her
• Germany
22 Sep 10
@stylewaves. What you write here is not a healthier. Love is to live in practical. not to live in dreams. You should learn to express your feelings. Feelings should be expresse. that is good for your mental health. There is no value in non expressive love. it is beautiful just like a rainbaw. just exprexx your love right now. If she reject just bear it. Once you did it to her. Isn't it. Be brave man. Go and express your love now itself. I wish you to get sucess; to get married her, to have many children, an a happy family life. Enjoy.
• Australia
23 Sep 10
i waited my girl for 11 years. U know its always problems in love but those who are made for each other, will certainly meet in life. Otherwise forget it as a dream and start a new life with other girl.
@yomy1984 (177)
• United States
23 Sep 10
when it comes to heart problem, always used your heart. Don't even listen your head, first because heart knows what you feel. Let your heart decide what to do. Before deciding, take a 30 second or 20 second break, let your hand touch your heart side, let it feel the beat of your heart. You can only feel her presence when she's gone. It is because the time she's showed to you her feeling, you're busy about something else. when women expressed her love to someone it means that love goes deep already. She doesn't want to be a burden to you that's why she disappear. If you still love her until now, and if she comes back, you should tell her about how you feel face to face, but some women doesn't just want to hear it. She maybe spending too much effort to lessen the pain she got from loving you, you should be taking more effort now on how to make her love you again. Some women when they fall in love, it takes time before they accept that it needs to go away, sometimes not,they might just lock it inside of their heart. Waiting for the right time. Be bold..be true to yourself..
• United States
22 Sep 10
Maybe you need to start being honest with yourself first. It seems as if your mind and heart are telling you to do different things. In situations like these i would listen to my heart and go for what i want. Talk to her, tell her how you feel, be honest with her and yourself. Good Luck
@tupeiwei (42)
• China
22 Sep 10
i only want to say that just to do what your mind tell you.because the happiness is belongs to you.
@jenny1015 (13391)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
you are very confused indeed! why not write on a paper the things that you like from her and do not like. weigh down things. ask yourself if what would really make you happier-is it to be with her or not? maybe in that way, you will be able to realize the real solution to your problem. Smile!
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
hello stylewaves! are you familiar with the old saying, "it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all? if i were you, if you really love her and misses her alot, then better for you to let your feelings out. no matter what the consequences will be, the most important is you have let your feelings be out. but if your still hesitating not to express it, then a butterfly in your hand will fly and find another place to be with. it is also unfair to her to be on the first move, be gentleman and brave enough to express what's inside of you and feel no regret because you only fell inlove. you should be proud to your feelings. :)
@ankster (273)
• India
22 Sep 10
Dude you should not waste your time.Either catch her up and speak your feelings otherwise if you are not that much bold enough leave it on God and try to achieve your goals in life,.Work hard to make your career strong so that you may create your image in such a way that automatically she will run and come to you.Dont sit whole day thinking on this matter.Eitther go get her or stop playing with your emotions and concentrate seriously on your life.
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
What holds you not to express your love with her? I would say that love is not all about feelings but it is also about decisions. Think it over, follow what you think could make you happy. Wish you happiness and a joyful lovelife. :)
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
I just don't understand that you have to do that to yourself. Why keep on stopping your feelings towards her? And you said that she expressed it first. You are so lucky that she made the first move. I think you better tell her what you really feel. Before its too late.
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Hi stylewaves, don't you think 6 years is a long wait :) What keeps you from expressing it to her? :) Sometimes we should face our fears in oder to know how others feel and it is only then we decide if we should stop longing for someone when we know how that someone feel :). Just try to say it to her, if it doesn't work out well at least you can put your heart at rest. :)
@sayariza (146)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 10
dude.. do not let your times in miserable situation you must move forward fast say your feeling before too late, remember if she is a beautiful girl, there could be many men wanting to be bf... ignore your brain, just use your heart
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Just do what is right of course don't be carried away by your emotions think what your emotion is saying. Emotion don't think they only feel.