Tips to keep a relationship longer

Hong Kong
September 22, 2010 5:33am CST
It is quite different to keep a relationship long.. Most relationship are fragile and can be broken by a simple argument.. Any tips to keep a relationship longer
6 responses
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I can only suggest that keep your communication and be open to each other. You should give each other a chance to speak what he/she feel, views, opinion etc. Your indeed right that some of relationship end because of these petty things. Also, you have to control your emotion and your pride. Learn how to be humble and say sorry if needed. Happy Mylotting!!!
• India
22 Sep 10
Hi, Most relationships are fragile because they are not built on strong foundation. The reason for most break ups lies in how they originated. I wrote an article http://www.bukisa.com/articles/354937_how-to-be-successful-in-relationships which I think you should read. There I argued that in a relationship one has to be strong to complement his partner's weakness. This can be best described with the following example. Suppose two hands are holding each other. Now we can't expect two hands to have equal strength. Whichever is stronger should complement other by putting on more strength. If, however, two hands have equal strength then the relationship is perfect. An example of one hand complementing other is the relationship of a father with his child, or that of a human being with God. The soundness of all the relationships that I have imparts crucial responsibilities on me. If I can adhere to a few simple rules, everything will be just fine. Thanks. God bless you.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. there are a lot of things you both need to do to make a relationship work. there is patience and understanding. trust and a lot of adjustment. the communication lines also needs to be open at all time. i am married now for 8 years and we have a four year old son. we fight the storms together holding each others hands. goodluck with your relationship and goodluck here at mylot.
22 Sep 10
Firstly you have to be compatible in the first place so that you have a foundation to build a relationship from. The key to having in a long and happy relationship is trust and communication you need both of these things for any relationships to survive.
@thebest1 (658)
• Romania
22 Sep 10
hello jeffrey! I'm married from 15 years...long time isn't it? In all these years I think the most important thing was trust and the second was a very good comunication:we talk about our troubles or about our plans...in fact about evrything.In this way,after 15 years we love like in the first year:)
@yeyezz (196)
• China
22 Sep 10
im single,i dont know how to keep the relationship long.as the people said,the relationship needs trust and well communicate.when the relationship was broken,we need more patience to keep the relationship long.