Some of my posts were "reported" for violation of guidelines

It's alright. Make sure you don't violate the terms and conditions again or there is minimum chance of that happening again. The posts in here are checked individually by admins and they just let you know whenever your post is deleted for violating the terms and conditions. Read the terms and conditions in details. T&Cs can be accessed through the main-page.

myLot does say that we need to take the warnings seriously, hey we are all human and new and veteran members do this all day long. It happens it is sort of a learning curve. Basically what I have done in the past is I read the warning message and then go back to the guidelines and see if I could make some sense as to why it was deleted. Usually I do find the answer quickly and well just like life we all make mistakes we are not perfect. It is how we learn from the errors. So just be cautious not to violate to many repetitive guidelines, what works for me when I am going to post a discussion is that after I type it out re-read it before hitting post. I then think to myself, would this be considered a poll, and or referral discussion. If I think perhaps it would be construed this way then I go back and edit it so that it does not seem this way. Good luck to you and I have also learned that the more responding I have done the more I have understood the guidelines. Have a good day.