Why marry

China
September 22, 2010 9:47pm CST
How Do You feel about Marriage? How Do you marry someone? Who do you marry ? How do you know if he's the one to marry? How do you know who we cannot marry?? How do you know he wants to marry you? How Do You Know for Sure ? How do you say "Will you marry me?" How do you get married? How do you deal with my long distance marriage? How Do you Make My Marriage Last? How do you save your marriage? How will you celebrate 40 years of marriage? How do i? WHY MARRY?
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12 responses
@luxlyangels (1286)
30 Sep 10
I feel cool about it. You marry by proposing and then the person accepts. You dont. You dont. She ll say yes. You dont,just have a lil faith in humanity. You say it.Will You marry ME. In the church. Long distance marriage,DUH. Yes,By all means.
• China
30 Sep 10
Sorry I don't understand DUH's meaning! and "lil"?
30 Sep 10
ok very sorry. lil is little and DUH is just an expression of grin on my face,as in i dont think long distance marriage is cool
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
marriage is a lifelong commitment.if I ever do get married,I want to be 1000% sure that I will marry the person I would like to spend the rest of my life with,with flaws and all.I will marry the person I love,trust,and respect,and he should love,trust,and respect me also.I wouldn't marry for the fear of getting old alone.
• China
29 Sep 10
Do you think marriage is the bigest thing in life?
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
marriage is a major lifetime commitment,with couples going through a LOT of experiences which can change how they see each other. I'm ok if I don't get married.
• United States
23 Sep 10
To sum up all your questions I would have to say the true sense of why people marry is because they are in love and want to share a unity as one and share the rest of their lives together. Although many today enter into the sanctity of marriage very lightly, most are not seeing the 40th to be able to share how they will spend the happy occasion.
• China
28 Sep 10
May be marriage is an important experience in human's life.
• United States
28 Sep 10
I certainly agree that it is a wonderful experience and would hope that all get to see the 40th as when we marry we all hope it is forever.
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
23 Sep 10
One usually marries because they fall in love. So, love is an important reason to get married. One falls in love and wants to spent the rest of their life with that person.
• China
28 Sep 10
Fall in love can drive very one crazy?
@formidexo (1351)
• Canada
28 Sep 10
But being in love is a most wonderful feeling!
• India
1 Oct 10
Marriage is a social set up that bond people to live together . It is loosing its relevance in the present society .
• China
3 Oct 10
thanks I agree with you may be more loose after time.
• Quezon City, Philippines
24 Sep 10
people marry because of the joy and fulfillment it brings to ones life. it is also a family life offering to God. in my case i want to marry under the sanctity of God and the Church. my husband-to-be would be God's gift for me, my perfect match :) we would spend our lives cherishing our marriage and children in a harmonious partnership, helping and loving each other through thick and thin.
• China
29 Sep 10
How beautiful and how great God will be smiling with you
@pogi253 (1587)
• Philippines
23 Sep 10
Many marry because they find that their relationship challenges them to better themselves. Living alone or in a relationship without commitment doesn't offer the same challenge to better yourself. An unmarried person has to worry only about themselves. Marriage and children help a person jump over that hump and care about others.
• China
28 Sep 10
Marriage also a challenge give everyone happy must give everyone pressure.
@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
23 Sep 10
The decision to marry is one that cannot be taken lightly. One must consider everything when making such a decision. Can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this one person, even if you both live to be more than 100 years old? Be certain this is the one person you can't bear to live without. If you have already married and are trying to resolve some issues I recommend purchasing The Love Dare book and following the program. You may also want to seek marriage counseling. It is important that your marriage is made a priority in your life if you want to make it work.
• China
28 Sep 10
If love have some rules? I will be following ,
• Vietnam
23 Sep 10
You asked many question. I have asked myself many times "why marry?" When I think about the marriage, I will image the wedding, chidren, houseworks and so on. It is both exciting and exhausting. I don't know who I will marry but I trust I will marry who I love. Maybe I won't marry. The future is unpredictable. I only know today, live with today. I want to be happy. Marriage have to make me happy. Many people marry because people did.
• China
28 Sep 10
The happy how much from marriage, maybe all may be none.
23 Sep 10
You seem to be so desperate to know about it all! Well, I am almost like this way! If only i could easily know the answers too, but no one can until we get into a marriage or married life! It's a matter of spending time and dedication for us to last a marriage i think. It's not how far u get through but how long and how hard you try to make it last. But it's not being fair for someone that he or she just the only one who wanted those things for their marriage. It should be from both sides. But there are things I am not really sure of as well as your curiosity about the marriage. How would u be able to know if someone has for you to marry with? But i remember someone has told me marriage is like a gamble. Everyone like a gambler wanting to win every single moment until the very last moment of the game. But for you to win, you also have to possess the quality of being wise and has to do something with the strategy of the game. You are able to know the flow like as of the couples. They were able to know somehow the personality as they had the chance to get the bonding and with some memorable moments of their life together before. So i could say it's like a gamble cause you haven't know the whole package of your relationship yet for you to decide how much you will be giving your best to make a winning shot to get into marriage
• China
28 Sep 10
Its fate don't need to try just need know.
@amelialsc (162)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 10
How do you deal with a long distance marriage ? This matter will be a question for me in a few months time after I get married. Secretly, many people advise not to be in a long distance marriage. It could jeopardize a few things. If I am sure the long distance will be super long maybe more than 2 years apart, I will pack my bag, throw my job and follow him where ever he goes.
@aarpees (149)
24 Sep 10
I am so into marriage. I love the idea of having a husband, because for me , that's the very fulfilling thing for a woman, find your real partner to whom youll spend the rest of your life with. I want to be married in the Temple, and have my eternal marriage there. I will marry the Man I chose when we are in the spirit world. I will marry the man approved by the Lord. You will know that that's the man when you can imagine waking up only seeing his face at the very moment you open up your eyes. I will celebrate my 40 years of marriage with my family and loved ones.