Do you believe in 2nd chances?

@chiyosan (29383)
Philippines
September 24, 2010 8:29pm CST
So when it comes to relationships, do you believe that second chances are still possible?? How about you? would you give your ex a second chance if she/he asks for it? and what won't make you give him/her another chance?
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12 responses
@Vivianh (331)
• China
25 Sep 10
It depends on the reason and how much I loved the person.I think most of the people hate being cheated,so do I.And I think it's complicated.
25 Sep 10
Yeah i guess it's really depend with the situations to someone to give the second chance. For some instances, you may give your forgiveness but can't give the second chance for the of you to start again. You may encountered thing wrong once in your relationship, but it has been damaging the most part of you to make it hard for you to give second chance to start with.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.
@misheli (554)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Yes I can give him a second chance because I love him and he ask for it and feel sorry for what he did to me. If you still love the person you should always give a second chance especially if you have kids. But if you don't love the person anymore and you think that he's not really sorry for what he did then don't give him a second chance just for the sake of the kids.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.
@swissheart (6291)
• Romania
25 Sep 10
it depends on what was the reason that ended the relationship at first. I mean if he was violent,he would lie or he would cheat on me, I couldn;t give him a second chance. if he shows me that he really wants us to be together again I could forgieve anything except what I mentioned.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
for relationship there's always second chance is possible because when people are still in love they will do anything for her/him,so second chance isn't impossible,and if people dont give the chance it must be the person really hate their couple
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
25 Sep 10
i have done this a couple of times before, i still get burnt. If it didn't work the first time then why should it work the second time around. Maybe it does for some but my history shows that for me it doesn't. Best to just move on.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I don't believe that second chances will be success but we should people chance to remorse and or to correct what mistake he/she does... If you can't give any chance someone to correct what mistake he/she does. Meaning you prevent that person to be good... Have a great day!
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.
25 Sep 10
Yes! For me second chance is given to those who ask for it. Cause if you try to give the second chance to someone who is actually not asking for it, then how would it be possible for you to see the good result of the second chance you have given to him? The fact that he doesn't ask for it, so it simply means he is not about to do the mistakes he has done to make it right. And yet, it is possible to anyone to give second chance to our loved ones. For it is part of what we called "relationship". To give and to forget, to start and make it last!
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
• United States
25 Sep 10
Absolutely as I am a firm believe that we should not judge a person by the mistakes they make, as I am guilty myself of several, but rather on how they correct and compensate the errors and try to become better people over it.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
I believe in second chances. My husband and I, can still be together until now, because we give each other a chance. We both improve the situation. I really hope, no mistakes that I or my husband have created. Hopefully this second chance, not in vain.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
yes i do believed with second chances..... as long as you can see it that one is very sincere in asking for it...
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
@LaurenInLA (2272)
• United States
25 Sep 10
I think that it depends on the reason why he or she needs a second chance. Some things can be changed but if for example, the person wants a second chance because they are abusive (emotionally or physically) or if they need one because they cheated, I wouldn't give them a second chance because I don't believe that those kinds of behaviors usually change.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
It depends on the reason why he's asking for it. But if the reason is because he cheated on me, I don't think I will give him a second chance this time because I believe that if they've cheated once what's stopping them to cheat again. And besides I would have lost all my trust in him so I don't think our relationship will not work after that.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.