Can you stand being single?

@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
September 26, 2010 9:46pm CST
Well, I would just like to have this discussion, especially for some who well, obviously can't stand being alone for a time and well, more often than not, they end up with the not so good catch kind of men! Do you know someone who would typically or normally say, they just don't want to be alone and they need someone to love them (romantically?) I remember this derma/doctor Vicky Belo and she was interviewed months back - and she said, she just wants to be loved, and she wants to have a "guy" in her life - and she can't live without a man in her life! This is coming from a very wealthy, i would think intelligent woman... but why... why would she feel only complete if she has a partner in life? (she's separated from husband, by the way?)
6 responses
• United States
27 Sep 10
On somedays, I cope with the fact of being singual and there are others days where I would love to have a special person. I think that reason why that is, I'm very independent person and I can come off stand offish.
• United States
27 Sep 10
Sorry, I misspelled single
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
thank you for your response. i would say, you and my mom are alike. she is independent and she always say she does not need a man in her life and she can take care of herself... and she did! :D
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
of coarse, i can stand so much as that,whats the matter at all? it does not mean that you're gonna be a lonesome if you don't have.Every one of us can live without a partner in lives. for me,ill' just enjoy my life being a single one.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
• Malaysia
27 Sep 10
if they asked me, i will said that i can...but for truly, i can't because sometimes, i feel that i need someone beside me like someone special, of course bf..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
Thank you very much for your response to the discussion. sorry for my late response here in the discussion. have a wonderful time in mylot... see you around the site! have a great day! Happy Mylotting!!
@romzz05 (572)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Emotional insecurity i guess is one of the reason, like your example Dr. Belo i believe she is adopted and she also admit that she is emotionally insecure. She needs to be constantly reassure that she is being love.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
oh, really i do not know much about her life.. but i guess maybe that is where her insecurity and wanting to be loved so badly may have come from. :)
@johney264 (544)
• China
27 Sep 10
Be loved feeling can proud someone themselves also can confirm the truth of I am living in valuable. person need this kind of feeling to keep on who's life is normally and shallow. But if I always be hurt or not be trust in love, I will choose keep distance from love. this do not explain i am not capable, on the contrary it prove i am great. because I have a outstanding thought, others may can't understand now, if I insist on my idea through hard work keep single some day the others will find. so stand being single. Provided that I have a strong heart.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
26 Jan 13
hi there, thank you for taking time to reply to the discussion, apologies for my late response though. hehe Have a wonderful time in mylot! see you around. God bless you always.
• United States
27 Sep 10
I can stand being single, though once in awhile i would wish i was in a relationship. That doctor probably just needs someone to accompany her in life. Even though she is wealthy, she still had social needs that she needs to meet. At home she is probably by herself all the time, and she wants someone that loves her and always stay by her side to complete that emptiness that she has.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
thanks for your reply. i would understand her wants to have someone in her life... i maybe you are right, its more of a wish to have a companion in her life.. she is not getting any younger, anyway.