when you are in love do you be completely blind for that person?^^

Portugal
September 30, 2010 10:21am CST
hi guys^^ when you are in love do you be completely blind for that person?^^ like no matters what he/she does you be hurt but always end forgiving and understand why he/she acted that way?^^ about me im always like that and usually get hurt in the end. sometimes boys go to far and i forgive and forgive and get hurt and hurt. so i think that sometimes be completely blind is not that good^^ even sure that we all like to be loved and thats why we easy forgive person bcs we love him so much that sometimes we think is our fault when is not :) what about you guys?^^ please share^^
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6 responses
@laydee (12813)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I know the feeling. But, I'm just wondering now, would it still be considered being 'blind' if you have been in love with a person for about 5years now? I see his faults and mine, but I guess I just see the good and try to talk about him about the bad side of things. Well. I know I'm blind. But oh well.
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
aw its ok^^ bcs is good that both accepted each others faults^^ we all have faults and love is accept the good and the bad side of people^^ so is good that you also see yours too and always try to solve things^^ also is ok to be blind sometimes^^ im sure your hubby is also^^ just sometimes we dont want argue and forget bcs we see the person didnt mean to hurt us^^ i wish you continue very happy with him^^ and thanks for share with me^^
@MQLanaoC (51)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
i think it just depend on the situation... but it could be a YES!:p,several people completely be blind for the one they love..i always understand and forgive,,but don't be abusive..because i might force myself not give you the 2nd chance if you wish..
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
yes many people do that^^ me included but i always let guys go too far treating me bad and then i get hurt. treat bad i mean emotionally not beating. but still we be hurt and cry. so i decided that i dont want relationships like that. we must be happy with that person. the happiest moments must be more than the saddest ones. im happy that you forgive but dont forget your feelings too^^ thats very important bcs if we forget ourselves we are the ones that get hurt in the end.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
30 Sep 10
When we love someone, we can be blind to their faults. We can't that blindness take us away from the love we have for that person. We can love someone and see their faults and still have a ;oving relationship.
• Portugal
1 Oct 10
yes is true what you say but if the person always hurt and hurt you is impossible. we can accept the other person faults but still we cant forget about our needs and our feelings. or else you get hurt in the end. and yes we can have a happy relation if we accept the other person faults but he cant forget to respect us and loves us and cares for us like we do.
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 10
Hi, Love is blind and when you really fall in love with that person, you may think the whole world is so wonderful and whatever thing you do is great. Of course , I have that kind of feeling while I was dating with my boyfriend. Everyday is seem like a valentine day for us..we just enjoy getting together all the time and wanna spend more time together. However, if my boyfriend ever betray me or do something that hurt my feeling so badly, I won't forgive him and probably has to break up with him. Be it how deep is my love to him, as long as , he is not honest to me, I will get mad and will consider whether to carry on our relationship or not.
• Portugal
1 Oct 10
im very happy that for you and your bf your love is like a party^^ you are always happy and caring so much^^ thats really great^^ but sure if he hurts you is normal you feel sad and hard to forgive him. but if he is so sweet to you it wont happen dont worry^^ continue loving and caring for him^^ all guys should be sweet like your bf^^ i wish you always be happy with him^^ keep him well ^^ and have a very happy day with him^^
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
I guess it is not about being blind about love..it is more about you are seeing what's wrong, but you love the person so much, you didn't mind anymore. And not minding it always is really not healthy for both of you...it is not good for you, because you will be abused, the apologies are not sincere anymore...not good for him, because even if you don't mind him acting the way he does and treat you, majority of the people around both of you will see him as someone not worthy of loving...
• Portugal
1 Oct 10
yes you are right^^ we see what is happening but forgive and forgive^^ and sure is not healthy at all. i know bcs these situations happened already some times in my life and i always ended crying or sad so. my relationships were never easy. i just wish i had a easy one for once in my life. and i left my last bf bcs he was always turning his back and we were always arguing. we must care but not forget our needs too. thanks for your answer^^
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I think yes,, cause base in my experincies i am too blind for love or to the person i love . and i think im so dull in terms of love/...i hope that in the time will come i can choose the perfect one,,