r unmarried girls can never bcome mothers?

India
October 1, 2010 1:22am CST
ya,if married gals can b mothers den y not unmarried gals?
2 people like this
3 responses
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
ahahahah funny question.. but i found out the answer about this 8 yrs ago when i ot accidentally pregnant. well that time i was unmarried. i was only 20 yrs old. just graduated from college. i wwas also so irresponsible, childish, dependent to my parents, and i hate children. then it happened, i got pregnant.. at first uknow what i would wanna do??? abortion.. well because i have thought of how i am going to raise that child if i myself cant raise my own self. i was also scared for my family to know what i have been doing. i was afraid to get married with my bf. he was not ready too. he was always out with his friends.. go to gigs with his band, smoke, get drunk.. not a daddy type.. eheh people if unmarried tend to be more selfish. they think of thier own needs, their self, just that, most of them are not aware of this and just cant admit that they are selfish. anyway, it took for me and my bf a hundred times of thinking before we got married. but well, we got married after 5 yrs.. we were more mature. more ready to sacrifice for our family, more ready to offer his/her self to the family.. hope u see that, having a child is a responsibility.. and that is the thing that unmarried people dont have.. :)
1 person likes this
• United Arab Emirates
1 Oct 10
I like that Ree_yah...you have given te right answer and a learning to all who read. When we are young we want to do lots of things we always want to be independent but we are only dependent. Then there will be a time when its too late to regret.
1 person likes this
• India
1 Oct 10
Hello why not? it is easy to enjoy life and become pregnant, but giving birth to the baby and face the society would be real hard job for indians i think.. Only due to this many girls get aborted though it is illegal, if too late, some hide give birth to baby and throw away some where!!! You can read about many such incidents in newspapers daily...... Thanks for sharing. Cheers. Professor. .
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
1 Oct 10
I think a unmarried girls becomes a mother but I think it is against of our civilization and customs. If I say about my country so it is not good in our country because this is really against of our customs. And also society doesn’t allow this. I think only after getting married a girls become mother.