People who insult a lot are commonly ugly.

Philippines
October 4, 2010 11:51pm CST
Have you ever met these kind of people? Because they are sooooo annoying. Like they are God's gift to everyone. That they are far more better than the other. I was in my job interview earlier this morning and some of the applicants are so ... well, if you listen to them more, they can only ruin your day. They are noisy and I don't know - simply irritating. Unfortunately, I sat next to them and I can hear them really clear when they're trying to like, say something not nice to that particular applicant because of what he or she wore and their physical appearance. I have a guess that they knew each other since they were on the same page and prolly they are of they same birds with the same feathers.Though they have some attempts on trying to let me participate in their "views" but I just smile and not say anything. I was struggling to keep my cool. Who are they to judge? But I believe in the following sayings below that: *people who criticize a lot are insecure *people who complain a lot seldom make actions *people who insult a lot are the most ugly of all And they somehow belong to the first and the third. I bet they also did some bullying when they were in highschool. And I pity them for being that way. They are all burning inside with insecurities. We are all beautiful in our own ways and I know we wouldn't want to experience to be insulted or be said that we are not beautiful or smart. I just wished they could shut their mouths if they have nothing nice to say.
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@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
5 Oct 10
Interesting people you have around you, sweetie. Tomorrow, take some toys with, okay. As soon as they get started, give them some toys. They will realize how childish they are and those toys normally help with insecurity. I can only pity them, too loose one's temper, won't really help. Even if you want to strangle them on that instant. TATA.
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
LOL. I love your fire, saphy. RAWR! If they pass the exam like I did, maybe I'll meet them during training. That would be time to bring those squeezy rubber duckies so that they could all put their stress through their squeeze. You're a Jedi Master. The force is strong with you, Saph.
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
5 Oct 10
Oh for Binnie's sake. Thanx sweetie. Please make sure it is pink and yellow ducks. The color might make the difference, you know. Throw in some dolls as well. No barbies, they are so old fashioned, you know.
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
Enjoy the BR, saphy. Thank you so much for always being good to me.
@Hatley (157944)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Oct 10
hi totallyundecided I now get the picture the ones you are talking about are some of the applicants and they are talking down to others. I hate that in people who belittle and insult just for the pure meanness I guess as I have no other idea why they would do that at all. Like i Have always said judge not lest ye be judged. we have no right to judge others because we have no idea of their lives or any reason to be judging.I knew a girl when I was in high school who was like that and I met her years later and she was even meaner.Like my mom always told me if you cannot say something nice about your friends just keep your mouth closed.She was so right and a gentler woman you could not find married to a jerk who unfortunately was also my dad.
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
Hi, hatley. I know we can't also help but judge others too but you and I have in common - that we keep to ourselves and if ever we want to share that certain views, we do it when the subject is not in front of us anymore. Moments like this can't really be avoided.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Well,people judge the other without looking or checking at themselves first. People who judged the other easily are the most imperfect ones,yes,insecure in all aspects. And,not to mention the other interviewers too,who are inconsiderate with nervous applicants,knowing that,they know its a newbie or first timer (first time to apply) I experienced this currently when i applied for a job. I was able to passed series of their process(company process of hiring) and sad to say that i failed in the final interview where there were 5 interviewers in the panel asking simultaneous questions,and i admit i do stutter and can not focused too well.(my mistakes and due to nervous when they start mocking ) Ok,i am still happy after all,i was able to finish the whole process of the company's hiring process. I guess i need to work on with my confidence
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
I also hate panels but was thankful that there were non when I applied. It was just one person who handled my interview and series of test but she's really intimidating. Phew.
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Hello totally pretty, that's really kind of you. those people having nothing much to share in their lives but to talked to other people. it's sad when one person can't face their own problems or shames by talking it about on others. this is what sad about the Filipino people, rumors, rumors, and more rumors. there's karma on the way to those people. I remember back in college that my best friend told me about other people in our barkada had been stabbing me in the back. it's normal.
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Hi, LK. No, I am not kind. I am also like any other average people. I have to agree with your, probably the not so proud trait of a Filipino is how we gossip and spread rumors like it's a beautiful dust. I know you're a secured guy, LK. So no worries. WE know you're a good person. Mylot peeps are here to back you up anytime.
@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
"Great people talk about ideas. Average people talk about things. Small people talk about other people."
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
Check.
@dawnald (84132)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Oct 10
People like that are ugly inside anyway...