One night stand better than Relationship

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 6, 2010 11:54am CST
When many of us says that thy are hurt in relationship, then one night stand is better option than a relationship...A relationship require lots of patience, go for shopping, many outings, spend money in restaurants.... and after all this if u break up then..... So dont u think its better to have One night stand... les cost and more satisfaction :|
11 responses
@swtpareek (651)
• United States
10 Oct 10
I don't consider this to be better than a long lasting relationship. One night stands are more about lust there is no love in such a thing. A relationship sure has some downsides but I feel they are overshadowed by the positive side of a relation. And going shopping and spending money in a restaurant has never been the main focal point of a relation. Spending time with each other, caring for each other and being there for each other is what is needed the most. Materialistic things don't matter much in a true relation.
@melanierg (130)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
being in a relationship is much better because you'll feel the love in it.. in a one night stand.. it's just lust falling through both of your veins. you both know that it's nothing serious so there's no love in it.. it's just a game.. the feeling of being in love and you loving a person is the most important thing in this world that money couldn't buy.
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
IF we've got hurt and lost of someone we love, it doesn't mean that we are already stop finding to someone who really destined to us. if they run for a long period of time yet they broke each other, maybe there are not really meant to be..but it doesn't meant that we gonna stop to love someone.. one night stand is good only for the satisfaction of your flesh, but how about our emotional feelings?...me i don't agree in one night stand..
@chinkai28 (116)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I think one night stand only works for a person that is not looking forward to settling down with someone he/she wants to spend the rest of her/his life...it may be less expensive, but courting or wanting a woman/man in your life doesn't require to be expensive. I believe it's the thought and the caring and the sincerity that counts most.
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
oh! excuse me for those who agree with this. but for me this is not a solution after a break up. one night stand is not good esp when women will do this. it will look us cheap. its like we are degrading ourselves. what if someday we will find the right guy at the right time and he'll know this?? its like i`m an easy girl. and also u don't need expensive dates just to be with your special someone. its the ambiance, its the COMPANION...
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
For me it's still better to have a "true" relationship with someone you really love. I don't think I can ever engage in a one night stand relationship, well don't get offended mylotters, I'm just sharing my thoughts, we all have the right to do what we think is best for us. :)
@swissheart (6254)
• Romania
6 Oct 10
yea you're rights it's less expensive, if we can say about a relationship that it's expensive, but in a one night stand you won't get the moral support that you need when you have a problem, you won't get a good advice from a person who really cares for you and so on...instead of it, yea maybe you'll feel good for one night, but after that you won't get to see that person again as it's called one-night-stand. a healthy realationship it forms when you are young...what are you goint to do when you grow old? still have one-night-stands because you're afraid of getting hurt...you know that saying...you can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket:)
• Portugal
6 Oct 10
well is true that in a serious relationship you have more responsabilities and it can end badly but with it you feel a true love by other person^^ and if is only one night stand you have pleasure and be happy that night but you cant be completely happy bcs you need to always all nights choose someone different if you want pleasure without committment and that is not really a way that will make you totally happy^^ so i say that i prefer a serious relationship even if is expensive and break up later bcs at least i felt the real love^^ but one night stand is only for fun and no feelings are involved so you cant be completely happy only with that^^
• United States
6 Oct 10
Being in a relationship and or just a one night stand is a matter of preference in my opinion. I would rather be in a relationship as then I know what I have and what to expect. As for being in a one night stand although fun at the moment you really have nothing outside of that. However this works for some people, and Bless them if they are happy with this form of arrangement. I suppose a person can get use to one night stands, for me maybe once but not a continual part of my life where i want to be at. I am happy with my relationship and although nothing is guaranteed, I can count on my boyfriend being there not just one night but for many.
• India
6 Oct 10
Well for guys one night stand is more comfortable but for girls i really don't think that this would be nice. They want guys who can truly love them from the bottom of their heart. They would want someone special. Guys want a girl who think that this guy is the first guy in the life. And girls want some guy who would be the last guy in their life. One night stand is well... not so good and it's not bad also. If girl agrees then it's cool for all of us. I wouldn't really know about that. Sorry. Cheers!
@jaiho2009 (39084)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
One night stand may looks better than having a relationship,for those people who consider it better. But for the people who are looking for a serious and long term commitment,relationship is always the best. It's an individual choice...one night stand or long term commitment.