don't be judgmental

@hushi22 (4941)
October 6, 2010 6:55pm CST
it's not good to be judgmental. why would people directly judge a person in just a short time and in a superficial basis without asking further questions to clarify whatever it is that bothers their minds? don't they know how to feel for being a person judged? i just dont like what i see these days. too many judgmental people around. sad reality.
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6 responses
• United States
7 Oct 10
Yes indeed, this would be a wonderful world if people thought twice before judging others and sometimes I think that the harsh judgers, if this word even exists, perhaps have a great deal hiding in their yard so they go all out of their way to judge others.
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
physical is not everything. people who judge other by just the way they look are just narrow-minded. they don't look deeper into a person before they judge.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
yes, as sad as it is, most people are like that. they tend to comment about someone or something without even having an in depth look at it. They say things about other people right away without looking at their own selves if they are actually doing the same thing.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
I know that something like this is unavoidable, but don't they just keep that inside their mind? It happens a lot in my country, and I am one of those that can't stand watching. It seems like those people are the owner of the person they have judged, and they are the one that know everything about what they own. Sadly, they will put this reason: "That's because we care of others." Yeah, care about people's business, right? So, it is, indeed, wise to put this on their face: "Don't judge book by its cover."
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
All I can say is "the dog doesn't bark if he knows the person", right? Sometimes people judge because of insecurity, and we all know that "Insecurity reigns on an ugly heart of an empty brain"..I hate people who are judgemental.
• United States
7 Oct 10
Again, there are many more, most of the people are that way. Even so many wonderful church going people. I try not to be that way. I have a heart for people who are having problems, and kids who grew up doing things that cause them to go to jail. I wonder where and what they came from. I am that way, because its very close to me.