Do you belive that what ever happens, it happens for good?

India
October 7, 2010 10:57am CST
there saying that what ever happens in our life happens for our good do you believe this well about me I believe it because for me even some thing bad has happened to me then I realize it that if this wouldn't have happened I wouldn't have got this so I deeply believe this what about you guys do you believe this?
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• India
7 Oct 10
Its a law of the nature that what we think and feel similar to that we receive. So nothing bad happens there is only good and positivity. Its only man who divides it as good or bad
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• India
7 Oct 10
ya you are right man divides every thing in the good and bad category where as everything happens for good..
• Lithuania
7 Oct 10
You're right.Can we say that world is negative or positive?Is Sun negative or positive?When I get burned, it's my fault, not the Sun's.Next time I'll be more careful.
• India
7 Oct 10
Well its like there is a negative sight of everything what is darkness it is not the presence of light in the same way what is bad the thing which is not good is bad that's it..
@SilverKing (1023)
• Canada
7 Oct 10
I feel that everything that happens in all of our lives is meant to happen.You have choises to make during your own life and some that you may make are the wrong ones.But without these wrong choises you would never have anything to learn from.We make mistakes in our lives so that we can learn what we did wrong and fix it in the future.Without these mistakes life would be dull and boring and it would be a repetitive cycle.I feel that life should be charished and is a blessing that we are here on this world with familys and people that love is.
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• India
7 Oct 10
Well I completely agree with you that without any mistakes the life would have been a boring and we make that mistakes to learn from it..
• United States
7 Oct 10
Absolutely not. Bad things happen and sometimes they are just plain bad. Sometimes life just plain sucks and there is nothing you can do about it and the only thing you can do is just move forward and try to start over again. I don't believe "everything happens for a reason" and I don't believe "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger".
@jujunme (2425)
• United States
7 Oct 10
I absolutley agree with you. I have never believed everything happens for a reason. i'd like to ask those who do believe this to explain what "good" can come out of those who have lost a child,through no fault of their own (murder, illness etc..)what good came out of the WTC terror attack where 3000 people lost thier lives when all they were doing was going to work that day.tell this to the families and friends of the victimswho will "never" be the same. Tornadoes, Earthquakes, Mudslides, where people lose everything they've worked and strived for, what good comes out of those things? Of course we can perhaps think of our own reasons especially if some good comes out of them, but there are far too many bad things that have no explanation at all.
@jujunme (2425)
• United States
8 Oct 10
Mustafarox: Even if i agree with you regarding earthquakes and possibly even "some" good that may come from a bad experience,but, in your discussion you state that you believe everything happends for a reason and mostly good will come out of a bad experience and i simply have to disagree with this. it isn't who or what causes the bad things to happen in someones life, in my opinion there are too many things that can go terribly wrong in ones life, through no fault of their own and i cannot possibly think of any good that can come out of these things and if you were to ask those who have suffered through really unfair and terrible tragedies in their lives i venture to say they would agree with me.
• United States
7 Oct 10
Although I can not figure out at the moment why the bad things are for my own good. Somewhere along the lines I finally get the message. Not the bad part but the part that makes me a better person.
• India
8 Oct 10
Well that's the point the bad which happens to us is actually good for us because if there was no bad then you wouldn't feel the happiness of good..
@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 10
I always believe something happen for a reason and karma always get back at you - back or good. So I guess the saying is true then. It maybe hard for us to believe that. But there's always a hidden message for anything that happen. We just can't see it.
• India
7 Oct 10
I completely agree with you that there is a hidden message in everything we do, we just need to realize it..
@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
7 Oct 10
most certainly
• India
7 Oct 10
Thank you for your response..