Soul mate

By eM
@eLsMarie (4148)
Philippines
October 10, 2010 5:51am CST
How would I know if I already found my soul mate? How did you found yours?
4 responses
@speedy1279 (2667)
• United States
10 Oct 10
eLsMarie, like one other person has already said. When you have found your soulmate you will know. Trust me! You will get this feeling inside you that you have never felt before. It's a feeling that is undescribable. But you will know. How did I find my soulmate? Well I actually found him when I was 14 years old, except back then I didn't know he was my soulmate because I was too young to understand what love really meant. We dated for about a year. He broke up with me, but we stayed in contact with each other for another 3 years and then lost contact with each other. Well 12 years later talking to my mom one night. She tells me he called a couple nights ago trying to find me. She took his number and then gave it to me. At this point in my life I was going through a very bad divorce. So, I decided to give him a call and see what he had been up to. We started talking and then decided to get together and hang out for old times sake. Well let me tell you the moment I saw him, all the feeling I had for him when I was 14 came flooding back but this time it was different. Being 30 years old, I now knew what those feeling meant and understood them. I knew in that moment this was the person I was suppose to spend my life with. That was almost two years ago and those feelings are still just as strong if not stronger today as they were almost two years ago when I saw him for the first time after 12 years apart. He is my soulmate, he completes me. He sees me for who I am and loves me for who I am. He doesn't try to change me. So, when you find your soulmate you will know with every part of your soul that they are the right one.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
12 years is too long! My God! You're indeed very patient. You were really meant for each other. I can't believe it. The divorce was kind of frustrating but I guess that's the ultimate sign to how you were able to prove to yourself that he was really your soul mate. May I ask you if what was your zodiac sign and so with your current love?
• United States
10 Oct 10
Yes, 12 years is a really long time. When my mom said I would never believe who had called her looking for me. In a million years would have never guessed it was him. I mean we were teenagers back then. I thought to myself, "Wow, he still remembers me?". We went to two different schools and had met at a roller rink in town. So, you can imagine what was going through my mind when my mom said he had called. As for our zodiac signs. I am a capricorn and he is a scorpio. Which some people will say are very incompatible. But it's totally the opposite for us. We compliment each other. We finish each others sentences.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
11 Oct 10
I am a female Scorpio... What a coincidence! Oh my God! Is this a sign for me?
@swissheart (6291)
• Romania
10 Oct 10
I don't belive in such things like soul-mates, the love of your life and stuff like that. if this thing really exists there are few chances, that in this big world, we could really find our soul-mates :). you'll only find a person that in certain aspects it's like you, thinks like you. with who you would like to share your life with:)
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
I respect your opinion swissheart. I think you already found the love of your life.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
10 Oct 10
You just know it. When you find that one special someone you feel is your soulmate you don't have to ask, you FEEL it. I actually don't know the answer to how I found mine. I thought I did at one point and... yeah. Stuff happens. I don't know how to answer that on my part. But I can honestly say though, you will feel it and know it.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
That sounds challenging...
@fireant (26)
• Poland
10 Oct 10
DOnt go out looking for one and it will happen when it happens.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
10 Oct 10
But what if he's already there but I'm not sure that he's really the one?