Have you fallen in love with your chatmate?
12 Oct 10
awwww.. i was in love with someone from pakistan. He is a muslim and his mom got him a surprise wife when he took a vacation back home last march. It would never work out. I told myself never to fall for a chatmate and that my chatmates are my real-life friend alternatives only, but still i have fallen for him. When he got back to Australia for his regular work, he honestly told me that he had just gotten married. Of course, i was saddened for myself but i am very happy for him because he has been longing for a wife. how i miss the days when we would both chat away when we get off from office. He has not been coming online lately and i feel that his wife was finally able to migrate to australia to live with him. And with that, i sooo know my place. He promised me that we would always be friends. Now that he has a wife, he has made me realize how truly lonely i was. I had been soo sad gjax. You just cant imagine how i struggle out of my loneliness.
• United States
11 Oct 10
Awwh yes I remember being quite smitten by a couple class mates, I can't actually say it was love as I was so naive and young. It sure felt like love, and ways never reciprocated and so I always kept it to myself. Cynical, I would not think so, I believe being in love with a classmate can certainly work out. That is both are in love. Love defies no age appropriation when it comes to matters of the heart.
11 Oct 10
i had... it was really unexplainable but to me visualizing it seemed like there are love molecules from him coming to me that yeah unbelievably i really felt we were in love. we went from friends to (virtual) couple for almost a year. everything felt real and like normal relationships work, we can also talk about anything under the sun.we talked about our careers, my and his family, building our own family in the future, how many kids we wish to have, even came to a point of having wedding plans. what made it different is the lack of presence but the longing was so deep we really wished to be together in the near future. it was even surprising on my part that he being the only guy i fell for online, is also the only guy i had a relationship with who i haven't doubted cheating. as a lady i always believed in my instinct but this guy really proved himself that i can say he is, by far, the most loyal, honest, and loving guy i ever met. might seem bad for me to say but his personality doesn't compare with my current guy. so why have i broken up with him? it just got boring. at some point, the online thing didn't work so well because i guess i got tired of having to just talk to him online or over the phone when i really want to see him for real so i can express myself more.