closer to wife

i think that maybe in some cases yes^^ the hubby gets closer^^ but even if you dont have children the hubby can still love you so much^^ is not the child that can make the love grow more^^ just maybe it put a couple closer even if they already love each other so much and are happy to have a child that shows the love both feel^^ but sure a loving and caring hubby is always loving his wife^^ doesnt matter if has kids with her or not^^

i've always had the same belief as you have and also wished that it really is like that when the time comes that i will be bearing the child of my partner. but in reality, i have seen that it's not always like this. it comes as a surprise to me that having 3 kids after 15 years of marriage doesnt guarantee loyalty, deeper love for their partners. i haven't been married myself so i do not have the most sensible reason as to why this happens.

This a concept, true to some extent, But I want to highlight a good poit by sharing my experience. When I had my first child, I became a little cranky because of the sleeples nights and all the stuff the mother has to do. I think we fought more than we might have fought in the previous 1.5 years, but in the long run, I do feel my husband has become more supportive and co operative and loves me more than ever.