what did you do if your friend misjudge you.
October 13, 2010 2:36am CST
i have this friend who always misjudge me, well i dont mind her. so you guys what is your opinion with this?
13 Oct 10
Any form of conflict, misjudgment arises when any one of two person doesn't share or is not open. I think in your case, it could be very well the way you open up to your friend. It could be possible that it is hard for your friend to find out what is going on inside your heart. Maybe you fail to bring her into your confidence. It could also be possible that there would have been a situation where you might have lied or maybe you let the misconception creep. It is important that we keep working at our relation from it being dragged itself. The time comes when either of us would start thinking in the negative way. Or, mate!! the hardest situation could be this friend of yours want you to be past tense of her life..
14 Oct 10
If you're friend misjudged you, maybe it's because of miscommunication. Sometimes a friend misjudged you because he/she did not understand what you did or said, so it's important for you to explain things. If you are really friends who understand, care and support each other, you should patch the gap that has started to separate you before it's too late.
13 Oct 10
Hi, I think you should have been a little more elaborate on this. How your friend misjudges you is not yet clear to me. When someone has strong opinions about everything around him, it is quite possible that he will misjudge the persons who are nearest to him. A perfectionist mentality almost always leaves you dissatisfied about everything. We need to understand the simple fact that none among us is perfect. As a human beings we are born with imperfections. So it is of no use to attempt to judge another person, unless you're standing on a fair and impartial ground yourself. Personally, I let others judge me and even pass comments on me. But I don't take all of them seriously. I first analyze those opinions and if it is justified then try to rectify myself, but if it's all gibberish then I just ignore them and forget all about them. Thanks. God bless you.