my sweet girl frnd is not feeling well today..

Pakistan
October 13, 2010 2:14pm CST
hi fellows, my lovely gf is not feeling well today, i don't know what happened, but she was not in a good mood, i tried to get her mood good but it didn't worked too much, she was having no problem with me, but still some how she was in bad mood, i can do anything for her, i wish somehow i could bring her sweet mood back, i love her so much.. if your gf had same situation, what will you do for her..
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@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
Oh I am sorry to hear that your gf is having a bad mood today and it has also affected you. Well maybe it's not your fault so just have it like that. She already told you that she doesn't have problems with you and it was not your fault so let it be. Girls really have mood swings sometimes especially if they are having their monthly periods. Just assure her that you will always be there for her with those kind of situations. It is really a good thing to hear from a person that you love the assurance of being there for you all the time. The feeling of not in the mood to do something is a natural thing. It may really affect the people around you or the person you are chatting with or speaking too. It will pass soon so just let it be.
• Pakistan
14 Oct 10
thank you so much dear , yes now i understand :) , she may b having monthly periods , girls normally have bad moods in that situation, but she could have told me that she was having periods, why didn't she told me that :( i can undrstand the situation of periods as i am grown up now, but its ok i am happy with her, it doesn't matter that she tell me each n every little thing, i just want her to feel easy with me, i want to take her freedom, i can give space to my love.. she loves me that is enough for me :)
• Pakistan
14 Oct 10
oh it was a mistake, i was saying that " i don't want to take her freedom,"
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
It's really fine. I got the thought of what you really wanted to say. It is good that you are such an understanding person as well. Your girl will really love you that much because you possess certain qualities that a girl could want from a guy. remember, Understanding is the key to a good relationship. You should know how to give way. But then it should also be a give and take relationship. Your girl should also understand the things that you wanted as well and not only you are there to understand your girl. She should also exert extra effort to do something that would make you happy as well.
@Bryanx54 (644)
13 Oct 10
my girlfriend is the same but she's mainly in a bad mood because of her parents i try to put her back in a good mood and mostly fail to the best thing i do was give her space to let all out then comfort her and make her happy again.
• Philippines
13 Oct 10
that is so nice of you to give your girl some space. It is good because she will have time to think for herself. then when it already subsides then it is the time for you to comfort her and make her happy. great response.
• Pakistan
14 Oct 10
yes dear this was really good answer, giving your loved one space is also a very good thing, sometimes people need the time to spend only with themselves, and i think every person needs some space to spend some time only with him or her, thank you so much for the great response dear.. :)
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
14 Oct 10
As me, you shouldn't do anythings. You can be beside her and you can hug her in your hand. When she could be calm, she'll talk to you. I think this is only a temporary.
• United States
14 Oct 10
aw sorry to hear that. just keep trying. eventually she'll tell you What's wrong I'm sure. it's tough to go through that huh? especially when you did nothing wrong so it kills you to see her mad