Are they merely just playing around?

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
October 13, 2010 7:44pm CST
My cousin was married with four kids. Before the youngest have been born, they decided to broke up. The guy fell for another woman and my cousin was left with four children. We gave her sympathy and all but later, we found out that she was the reason to why they broke up. After few years, the guy got married. My cousin to be with a man who had three kids but not legally separated. Last night, we had a party, all of them were present. It's like I'm watching a movie from where all the casts were present with just a one whole scene. It's like nothing really happens. Is it really possible that things just turned out to be like this?
3 responses
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
What a complicated situation they have! Well if they are happy on what they have now then leave them be. I just feel sorry for the children, for they would be the one who would be suffering in the end. They would be the one who would be confused in some point in time.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
I agree with you mlhervas. If you could just witness to how they tend to be act civil also for a very young age. They don't deserve this kind of life.
@wiccania (3360)
• United States
14 Oct 10
Sometimes people get along better as friends. They fall in love, they get married, their romantic relationship doesn't go so well. But in the end, they're capable of spending time together, with one anothers spouses or significant others and there's no awkwardness, no animosity, no ill feelings. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen sometimes. My ex has said that he wants us to be like eventually, but quite frankly there's no way it'll ever happen. I'll be civil to him if we have to be together for anything, but I'm not going to confide in him or be friendly toward him. That's just us, though. Some people really can make a situation like that work for them.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
The kids were the ones who were greatly affected by it. The saddest things in life mostly happens right after getting married. Couples tend to have that hidden anger or other flaws that can worsen their chances of still living together.
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
14 Oct 10
you saw it with ur own two eyes.. it really happens. sometimes i say that relationshipa must be worked out. its not just being two individuals so inlove all the time.. being glowing all the time,. there are also gloomy days.. that is full of temptations.. we have to battle with this.. and if we are all too weak, well our family will crumble right before our eyes.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
I just wonder if there were still feelings left for my cousin and so with her former husband. How does their partners fell about the set-up? I mean, it's pretty crucial if I were to think about it.