your have your lover password. would you use it to see if he was cheating? O_O

happy lovers^^ - boy and girl in love^^
Portugal
October 15, 2010 2:14pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that you have your lover password^^ would you use it to see if he was cheating?^^ about me i wouldnt use at all^^ i had an ex bf that wanted to give me his password but i said no i dont want it^^ he has the right to have his freedom so i wouldnt use it at all^^ what about you guys? would you use it to see if he was cheating or not? but imagine he doesnt know you have the password sure. so would you use? please share^^
4 responses
15 Oct 10
no, i would not, the trust would be gone and the relationship would be a farce. if you don't trust them, don't be with them.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
thats very cute craigy^^ im happy that you wouldnt enter in your gf's email^^ yes if you entered would be a bit lack of trust^^ but doesnt mean it would be a farce just we are all human and with afraid to lose person we like we never know what we will do but me also i wouldnt use it^^ like i said my ex wanted to give me and i said no^^ i wouldnt do that^^
16 Oct 10
if you start to question your partner then the trust has gone and the relationship is doomed. The trust and love needs to be there, always
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes thats true^^ a relationship can end bcs of lack of trust. like my ex. he always was accusing me of love all guys and wasnt proud of him and always turnt his back to me and made me cry and be sad. so i decided to let him go and chose a guy that really loved me and was more than a year after me^^ and i started to love this guy and now he is my bf ahah^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
16 Oct 10
i will use her password once and will be hurt by seeing the mails and conversation then will write a mail and will ask her to change her password..
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
if you saw that she was cheating you would write an email and ask her to change password? about me i wouldnt say nothing. would just write a letter saying im out of his life and thats all ^^ i wouldnt want to be with a guy that was cheating on me if i found that out. anyway i wouldnt have courage to enter in his email^^ and i know my bf isnt a cheater^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
21 Oct 10
when we take birth we dont knw what we will b after 25 yrs.. similarly we think tht our partners are not teachers till she/he broke up :P hard truth of lfy but its truth.. ;)
@swissheart (6469)
• Romania
15 Oct 10
I'm kinda curious so I would probably use it.:)) of course any guy cheats, and he could do ithat without me knowing this, but I would have the curiosty to see how he speaks with other girls, what dop they talk about, how do other girls call him
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
ahah yes swiss i guess many girls would use it^^ yes is true that maybe he could be flirting or something and sure is normal you wanted to see how he talks with other girls and how do they call him^^ anyway not all guys cheat but yes most part of guys are flirty ahah^^ is very rare if you find a guy that doesnt flirt^^ but as long as dont cheat is all fine^^
• Philippines
23 Oct 10
I do trust my boyfriend but I will do that because I just want to make sure that everything is alright and I am sure that hE is not cheaTING ON ME.