would you kill yourself if lost your lover? O_O

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Portugal
October 15, 2010 3:01pm CST
hi guys^^ would you kill yourself if you lost your lover? O_O about me i would cry too mcuh and wouldnt find no one else but i wouldnt kill myself. but maybe i would go crazy. kill myself i wouldnt have courage i guess. but just if he died bcs if he broke up with me i wouldnt go crazy. i would cry sure and be too sad but it just meant he wasnt the one for me so i wouldnt kill myself. but i really love my bf and i want be with him^^ and dont want lose him^^ what about you guys? would you kill yourself? please share^^
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23 responses
15 Oct 10
not at all, life goes on, relationships come and go.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes craigy i understand what you mean^^ yes sure would be hard for you to move on but you would have to^^ and im happy that you would save a special place in your heart for her^^ but sure you would also have the right to be happy again^^ im sure if this happened what i wish that doesnt happen your gf would want you to find someone else to be happy again^^
16 Oct 10
they would want me to be happy and possibly finmd love again. It would obviously take a long time though.
16 Oct 10
your the sweet one, not me. i need a woman, one like you.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Hi, I wouldnt do that. If I lost my lover, I would be broken hearted and would cry out loud but eventually pain will last. I would think positive and be with other people that I love and who loves me,then you will realize there are still a lot of people who love you,there's your family,friends and soon you will be able to find someone better than him. And as a Catholic,I will never hurt or kill myself.I fear God and I love myself.:-)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Hi, Thanks for agreeing. I believe he will be happy to see us with someone who will love us and continue with life. We may loose him physically but not emotionally,he will still be with us,with all the happy memories. Life must go on.. Have a nice day!
• Portugal
18 Oct 10
yes cherry thats true^^ bcs we lost him phisically didnt mean we would lose all memories of him^^ and sure if was me i wouldnt want my bf to die also i would want him to be happy^^ but i really dont know^^ anyway things are not good at all with my bf now so maybe things will end is two days already he doesnt come online and dont say nothing to me so. i feel so disappointed
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
it seem's like too much love will kill you., but for me why should i kill myself for just swallow reason.? though we love in a different way, but killing our own self just for that love it is terrible and riducous., what im trying to say is that when we love, we should be balance,.
• India
19 Oct 10
I don't know where she is now!!
@shibham (17025)
• India
16 Oct 10
i am not so mad....
@shibham (17025)
• India
19 Oct 10
ohhh... sweet.. no, yes, there is no one who is in my heart. i am in search.. u know. lol
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
18 Oct 10
Hi dear, Yes, if it could have happen, it should have been long back. Now, I have survived that stage and I am sure that in this reason, such thing will not happen to me. However, thank you so much for your comments. Regards, Thank-s
• Portugal
18 Oct 10
you mean that maybe if it happened to you before you would have killed yourself but now you wont anymore?^^ thats good that you wont do that in your future^^ but you should find a gf to be happy with^^ didnt find the right girl for you yet? what happened to that girl you told me before? the one that liked you?^^ you should try to contact her again^^
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
no,, because i know that he is not the only boy for me in this world and i think god has a plan for me..,so why i should kill my self if i believe in god.,.,
• Portugal
17 Oct 10
yes sure god has a plan for you^^ and sure you shouldnt kill yourself. you can meet many guys yet^^ thats true. you are young so many guys will pass in your life yet. and sure if you believe in god and think he has a plan for you sure you cant waste your life and must live it well^^ i understand what you mean^^ anyway wish it doesnt happen to you.
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
HMMH NO ,, I THINK I ONLY CRY FOR HIM ,but i will not kill my self cause i know that he is not just the only man in this world,, and i think god is always there for me all the time,.,.,. and i think it is not good enough for me to cry in this younger age of mine in my bf if i loose him.,.,
@misheli (554)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
If ever that happens to me I will not kill myself just because he left me. I still have my kids and they are the reason why I want to live in this world. I will feel sad but not to the point of killing myself.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes is good that you wont kill yourself. sure your children also need you^^ would be very sad but your kids would also need you^^ so is good that you would be alive for them^^ thats sweet^^ anyway sure would be hard to live like that. but their love for you would help you. thats cute that you would remember that they need you. anyway i wish it doesnt happen to you^^ you deserve to be happy always^^
@erikmama (12934)
• United States
16 Oct 10
My love of a lifetime and I seperated 5 months ago. It was very hard for me.I felt like I was going to die some of the time, and I think there were times that I did want to die because the hurt so much.But I would never kill myself, I don't think. I know there is always a light of day somewhere out there, and I am the mommy of two wonderful children who need me more than anyman could ever.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
sorry for it yes i guess was very hard that you got separated. is sad that you thought you would die. and im happy that now you feel better^^ and is great that you stayed ok to take care of your children^^ yes sure they love you very much^^ and im sure that you love them so much too. thats great that you did that for them^^ and dont be sad we all have someone for us and im sure you can find it soon^^ you deserve^^
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
16 Oct 10
Hi dear, If this is the case, this must be my 100th birth. However, if there were no more girls around, I must have done. But world is so big and I think the proportion for men vs women is 3:1 so nothing to be bothered on this issue. We can love as much we can but can possess only one with whom we live. Also, lost love doesn't mean that we should die on this issue. Unfortunately, I know there are many cases around happened and happening also. But I cannot be an example for it. Regards, Thank-s
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Thinking that I will be die just because of losing him is sounds so crazy. I would rather kill myself if i was guilty with something that happened because of me. But because he is lost for any reason I better cried a lot and really was felt the pain and stayed at home for sometime yoga. Just to make self relax and feel free from any negative thinking...thanks.
• India
16 Oct 10
Well no I wont life is very precious thing to waste it down for one loss.And I don't think my loving ones or the one I loved would ever want me to do that to me,at least I don't expect the same from my love.Well I am sure you don't expect it from your bf either right.Have a nice day and don't think such things life is to live and let live thats what I believe.And everyone will go some or the other day its sad but true.So live your life fullest even if you lost someone.Take care and hope you and your love have a great life ahead.God Bless !! :)
@Yada25 (44)
16 Oct 10
Of course not, You maybe sad at the beginning of lost your lover. But you have not only one lover, you have friends and family who are your lover also. Your life is not depending on only one lover. You have lovers, at the same time you are the lover of someone too. And also it depends on how do you lost him, break up or die. In first case, you will get the best in the future. In latter case, he will be your beautiful memory forever.
@harike (2)
• Australia
16 Oct 10
theres really no point to killing yourself, as it would solve nothing. You need to persevere and keep at it. If all else fails, you really just need to understand he isnt worth it. forget about him and move on, after all, sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together..
• India
16 Oct 10
Killing oneself is not a solution. as you said you would become crazy, i would also become crazy and may be one cannot say what i would be doing because of the tense situation.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes kendra i would go crazy for sure. only thing i want in my life is go meet my bf near^^ and be happy with him^^ thats all i need to be happy^^ but sure is ok that you wouldnt know what you would do sure. if we become crazy we dont know what we will do. but being alive crazy or die and have a next life maybe we better have a next life than being alive and crazy dont you agree? anyway wish it doesnt happen to us^^ and we be happy with boy we love^^
@banban (602)
• China
16 Oct 10
Of course not... Life is only once. When it ends, all is over. I'm young right now, and I have a lot of things to do in my life. Easily ending it just because of losing a lover, that's too silly and unworthy, I have to say. :) If a relationship ends and you lose the one you think you love, well, you have to try to get over it. He/She is not your the one.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
for me i would cry too much but i wouldnt kill myself,maybe he's not for me maybe he's not deserving for me!!! maybe i can find someone better than him,someone who deserves my love..!! if i kill my self how can i find someone better than him...
@madteaparty (2763)
• Japan
16 Oct 10
No, I wouldn't kill myself over something like that. I know that it would be a really painful experience, but in the end I would get over it and go on with my life, and probably in the end find another person to love, so it's not worth killing yourself for another person when your life can still go on and turn again into a happy life. Of course we don't have to forget the people we lose, but being happy again is a way to be thankful to that person for making us happy in the past too.
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
noo way!! dun wanna be laughing stock of the society. i wud be complete loser if i do that. im way bigger than my lovelife. its not everything and its not the end of the world. you can always move on and find new romance. my lovelife is not my life. its just a part of my life. one of the aspects
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
yes i see what you mean^^ you would want to keep alive and find someone else later on^^ and i see that you also dont value love only but also other things in your life^^ well thats why you wouldnt bcs you are attached to other things too^^ about me i live for love so if i lost him i would die inside completely and wouldnt want to love again.
@coollady9 (143)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 10
Dear, sweet love. There r so many boys, men out there waiting for your love. Losing him is not the end of life. If U are beautiful, charming, sexy, and smart I don't think U will lose a chance to get handsome man or just the perfect one for you. If u just looking at him well I believe U won't move to another one. That's what I call Love is blind.
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
ahah you are funny^^ thanks so muchy^^ i dont think i am that pretty and sexy actually^^ im just a normal girl^^ and sure maybe other guys would be waiting me but i want only my bf^^ i really love him and he is important to me^^ i dont want other guy and i wouldnt want to live without him. so i guess the best was die with him also^^ and be together in other life^^