our mate
By nophie
@nophie (2336)
Indonesia
October 16, 2010 12:07am CST
I sometimes wonder with life, not to regret but rather amazed with the way my life even one's life path.
I just got married, and my husband is someone who I know only a few months. although in the past he was a schoolmate in high school, but at that moment I did not know about him. there is no one knows about mate. when we build a relationship with someone we believe that the person will be our life partner. but it turns out it can be changed in the middle of the relationship. we just got married to someone that we never think about before. in fact, I feel happy married with my spouse.
mylotters, does anyone have a story like me?
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6 responses
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Congratulations to you, during the stage of boyfriend-girlfriend relationship few bad traits you can see on your mate unlike when your married wherein everyday you were together you noticed almost everything about your partner. You are in the stage of adjustment, each will discover the "other" side. I can see that your very happy with him now, marriage indeed is one challenging chapters of our lives but it is also a happy and sweetiest part of life's journey. Cheers !
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
16 Oct 10
i have^^ my bf i thought few times that maybe i could love him but then i always felt no i dont think i can love him bcs always liked him only as friend and always liked other guys. but i was wrong^^ we just got more close and i fell for him also^^ he liked me since long ago but i didnt so i didnt accept be with him but now that i love him im happy we are together but is complicated our situation. anyway im happy that you are happy with your hubby^^ and that he is the one for you^^ congratulations^^ 
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 10
I haven't experienced something like that, but I for one was in the condition that I would marry my ex-girlfriend, but it did not. Well, the best way is to accept what it is, and just keep flowing with life.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 10
oo...iam surprised with your life nop...in my words is "beautiful in the right time"..but my experience is tottally different with your experience..
i twice again and again failed when make relationship with my mate..
but i do hope it can make me lost confident to make relationship with another person..
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 10
Hi Nophie!.
I think life is something we can not predicted. Its very mysterious we can having relationship for many years but its end at the end but I can see many people like you, they just meet in few month but they ready to married and they happily married.
I am still wonder how will my story with my future husband, I hope it will simple and made me happy.
@stanly012992 (241)
• Philippines
16 Oct 10
Hi, nophie
You have really a good situation right now because you already got married. I know more story about your situation and some of them their relationship going better and some them got divorce. But I hope for you will be have a good relationship for all time.
Have a nice day.
