do you always cry whenever you have problems?

Philippines
October 18, 2010 2:30pm CST
a pleasant day fellow mylotter, since my childhood days, i always ended up in crying whenever i am facing a problem. whether it is big or small, my tears will just fall. there are times, i am thinking, if i am just a coward in facing those problems. there are times, questions keep popping out on my mind, is life really full of trials. honestly, i dont want my tears to fall again but there are times, i cannot help it. since trials comes again and again. for this reason, a lot of thinking keep arising at the back of my mind, why trials are always there. and why those trials dont stop.
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19 responses
• United States
18 Oct 10
I am exactly the same exact way. I cry for anything, I am very emotional person. I cry when I am angry, depressed and even happy. No matter what I do I can't hold back my emotions, it's like if my tears are in automatic pilot they just come out naturally. I am especailly worst during that time of the month, everything hits me hard and any little thing will activite my crying. My husband says it's good in ways that I can't hide my emotions and I am always faithful to them, but sometimes I wish I could hold them back, so people won't see how weak I can be.
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
It is really hard to control the tears to fall. That there are times, I am thinking how to control it. That, I also dont want other people see me crying.
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
1 Nov 10
Hi airasheila!. I don't really easy crying if its not to painful and I still can hold it. you will never see my crying over small matters because my pride don't allow others to see my tears. If I cry it will in comfort of my room and no one will pity me or think I am to emotional. By the way we all have our own way to express our feeling including your way. We all unique.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
actually your not a coward,life is full of trials,you have to face it.GOD GIVE THAT KIND OF TRIALS BECAUSE HE KNOWS that trials make you a stronger person.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Yes, I do. But every time problem come to me I cry not to someone else but I cry to Jesus asking for wisdom to solve the problem. I always commit fault in my life but God always help me to learn from that fault. That's why I cry to God not to anyone else..
• Thailand
19 Oct 10
I'm a girl so certainly I cry when I have problems but not whenever. when I was a child, I always cried if I was bullied. but when I grow old, I can dominate my felling, so I less cry. I still remember when my first love went away, I cried a lot. and these next days, it was horrible for me. I missed him very much, at once I touch memory, my heart aches.
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
i think there is nothing wrong with crying because by means of it, you can express your feelings. i'm an emotional person too, i cant help my tears to fall whenever i see someone who is in hurt.
@banban (601)
• China
19 Oct 10
No, I'm not the type of person. :) I cry when I'm feeling really sad.So, not every time I meet a problem, I go to crying. Only if those problems accumulate to a certain level and I cannot handle it, I lose my control of cry. In my opinion, crying often is not good to your health and makes your weaker in both heart and mind. But crying sometimes is a way to help you leave away of those emotions and brings you back to normal.
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
19 Oct 10
First and foremost thing is that I do not consider crying as a sign of cowardness. It is just the flow of your feelings which you are not able to stop due to excessive emotions in your heart. I do cry many times when my heart is full of some sort of sad feelings. But that does not mean that I become weak by that. I on the contrary, become stronger and stonger as I give out my frustration through my tears and then decide what way I want to proceed in my task. It makes me feel little easy when I cry out and then if I take decision, I generally take right decision and try to put my all efforts in that task as that decision was taken by me with full heart and with a heavy heart.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
19 Oct 10
I had the same problem . Maybe you can solve your as i did mine. I always tried not to cry anymore, and if you want to succeed you must be strong . You must have the power to pass on every problem you have, and be optimist . This is the key that you are looking for. There are some medicines that you can take, but i don`t reccomand thouse . The answer it`s inside . Try to become stronger, try to be optimist and all will be just fine .
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
19 Oct 10
This all depends on the severity of the problem. If it is a little problem that creates little stress and discomfort in my life, it is not worth crying about. if the problem is a hug crisis in my life, i am sure there will be plenty of tears shed over it. I will try my best to overcome the problem, but that doesn't mean that i won't cry along the way.
@tkonlinevn (6340)
• Vietnam
19 Oct 10
I sometimes cry when I maybe meet some problems. But I do that for only myself, of course. After crying, I'll feel better. I think it's good.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
im am very emotional person, i cried a lot. however it doesnt mean we cried a lot we are weak. its one way to release from stress. ive been facing many problems it made me a tough person. crying its not quite bad at all
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I hardly let people see me crying. But I do cry, but not every time I have a problem. I cry in front of people if I cannot help it and the tears just keep coming. When I was a kid and I was brought to the doctor's clinic to be injected, I didn't cry. My mom told me that they wanted to make me cry when I was about three, but I would just look away and not cry at all. She said I was a tough kid, and I still am. I am not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing, but it works for me.
• India
19 Oct 10
You are so emotional and that is why you cry. It is quite natural for people to cry. I do not cry for any silly things that hurts me. I try to overcome the situation. Bt I ave cried when something big has happened.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
18 Oct 10
I'm very emotional too. I am not really good at expressing myself so instead the tears just roll out, even when I'm happy. I don't really like to cry since it gets messy but I do feel better after I do. I think it helps me clear my mind.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Hello airasheila. Yes I do always cry when I encountered problems even small problems because it is my way to bursting out my problems. I remember when my instructor told me in a joke that I am not passed the exam, easily my tears falling down because I felt I am pity during that time and ashamed for my classmates. But it is only a joke for our instructor. I am easily a crying lady.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 10
Crying is good for the heart. - Less crying may cause more heartache later.
Ya i used to cry when go problems,but cry in my heart only or wet eyes only no tear drops will stop it from flowing since it male ideal not to cry.Nowsday i subside the crying with inforced cursing and hearthen of the heart so it better no cry.However,hearthen of the heart cause more heartache and headache later.May increase smoking too.
@dapy17 (74)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
It depends. I don't cry over little things. Every time I face with trials, I always think that it will just pass. But when it feels so heavy inside, I cried it out and it helps, it eases the pain.
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
yes, but its depends on the problem I've encounter especially about love. whenever i was heart broken thats the time I've cry. I've also cry in time my parents are also having problem that can affects me. thats all.