Online dating
By tash01
@tash01 (2030)
Jamaica
October 18, 2010 4:53pm CST
Pleasant good day all ..... i have a question ....
I recent hear a lot of people say that they would not date someone on the internet because the dont know the person an all .
Because i have meet my husband over 4 years now online we meet on this social network call Tagged after we meet online we start talking by phone an email each other an after two year we have meet in person on a date, Tow years later we got Married an we live together now.
Online dating can be good an bad. sometimes we just have to get to know the person before we stay thsi an that .... I hav emeet my Husband online an we are happly Married now next year January 30 will be one year an we love each other very much .
Question
Would you date some online?
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11 responses
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Oct 10
well your so right ...... i agree with you ... My cousin use to use my computer when she was here in jamaica sn she said tash are you on tagged no i just read my message an come offline an she am going to sign you up on tagged sn she did an thats where i meet mt husband on tagged . com ......
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
18 Oct 10
I've had two long term relationships (one is my husband and father of my daughter) met on a dating website. Many of my friends have met their long-term boyfriends and husbands online.
There are many benefits to online dating. You can connect with many people, quickly, with no loud music at a bar or a club getting in the way. You can easily tell from their profile if there is something that is a deal breaker for you (they love to travel and you hate it) so you know there is no point in pursuing a relationship that won't last.
And for a woman, it's better because 90% of guys will try to get you to do some cybers*x before they even meet you, so you know they are cads and you never have to talk to them again, and they don't know any of your info like phone number, etc.
Online dating is especially good for people who don't like going out to crowded places. Personally, I cannot be attracted to someone unless we can connect intellectually, and how the hell can you know that in a dark bar or club with music blaring? All you can tell in those places is what a person looks like (barely, if it's dark) and to me that doesn't qualify as dating -- it qualifies as mating.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 10
Thank you Rebecca well i have found mine we talk every day online an till after a year we exchange phones because we both are Christians an we talk basically every day because i dont go clubs an party an stuff like that chruch , the store an then home . I know alot of people who have meet online an get married an even gots kids together and i am one of them......
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
19 Oct 10
I have met people from school and work also that I have dated, but the most important thing to me is to be able to have a good conversation, that's why bars and clubs don't work for me. I know there are people who meet at a club and later have regular dates where they talk and get to know each other, but I also know people who end up trying to force a relationship out of a drunken one night stand after clubbing, and that doesn't usually work out!
I think that whatever works for finding a real relationship with a nice person is good!
@RebeccaScarlett (2532)
• Canada
18 Oct 10
Forgot to mention: "online dating" is usually how you meet someone, not how the entire courtship goes. I think the problem is that everyone visualizes that "couple" who has been dating for two years but never met face-to-face. That's not how to go about it. Exchange one or two messages and then go on a real date, already! Then it can be as "hands-on" as you like ;)
@ivo_shkafov (399)
• Bulgaria
18 Oct 10
I don't approve online dating.It's creepy and nerdy at the same time,so how come people do it?
@slovenc1 (2089)
• Slovenia
18 Oct 10
Datino online doesn't restrict you to call her/him or to arrange a meeting even very early. It's just a way to find friends or maybe even love. I prefer having a chat that can be very personal and deep with a girl online and than asking her on a real date instead of going out to party, get drunk and trying to dance with a chick that's too high even for herself. But hey that's just my opinion and i respect yours, have a great day
@shiellamaenies (169)
• United States
19 Oct 10
me,yes i will and i did.me and my husband found each other through online dating site called "cherry blossoms".after 1 day chating on that site we decided to exchange phone number and email address so we can talk more and know each other.we chat and talk twice a day before work and after work.after 5months we meet in person and get to know each other in 2weeks.7months after meeting in person we get engage and 1 month after the engagement we get married.like you and your husband,we are happily married now..this coming february 13 will be our 1year anniverssary.well,your right online dating can be good and bad..all they need to do is to pick or choose the right one.they need to be wise and smart about choosing their partner in life.be happy and enjoy,life is too short so we need to enjoy it while we are young just go go go and ride it.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
Wow Congratulation ......wow am so happy for you.
Well i meet my husband on tagged but we take like 3 years before meeting in person. but we talk onthe phone and messenger an stuff like thats get to know each other more and after we meet in person couple months after we got engage and a year after we got married January 30 of this year we got married you can few our wedding picture's on face book.yes we just have to make the right choice and be smart.Because i know of a lot people have date onlien but afired to talk especially the men we just have to enjoy life and be happy.
@pecito (303)
• Bulgaria
20 Oct 10
I have a friend who also met her husband online in fb and they have been living happily together for two years now.The only questions I wanna ask u is how did you have the patience to wait for sooooo long without even seeing him and did u date other boys during that period of only mailing to each other and talking on the phone??
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
When i meet him online was active in church a christian soe he was not dating anyone we just talk as friend an the communication was good that we just get to know each other an sahre our life stories all and stuff loike thats we talk every day an every night till we fall a sleep an an we spend alot of time talking on the phone and email each other .an then we dicide to meet inperson he wanted to meet but i was telling him i wa sthinking about an stuff before i have never meet anyone onlien before an he said just have faith an god will carry me through an we did meet an have a lunch an from their we just get closer to each other an start having lunch every week end bcaus ehe dont work on weekends so we meet every week end. with online dating just have to be honest an get to know the person more an develop a good communication with person.
have a ncie day .
@doray1960 (98)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I have known a lot of couples also who have known each other online. They are now happily married. Women in our country, prefers to marry men from the internet because they are much serious, stable and dependable. This is the trend now in selecting your future mate.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
Thank you for your respond,
Yes this so true i have come across millions of people who have successful married to some one who they meet online.alot of people do they are just afraid to talk .as you said this the trent now to meet your future mate i think it is
@pogi253 (1586)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I think online dating is not good way of finding the right partner. It is an emotionless process and no one can ever be 100% successful with online dating.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
Thank yyou for your respond!
Well a lot of person have been successful include me and i have found my best friend an my husband online.So you're the one who won't be 100% successful with online dating because you don't like it.But thank you fo ryour response .
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Oct 10
tash I have never use an online dating site but I think it is possible. I mean we meet men and women at bars, parties, gas stations and grocery store. What is to say that these people are on the up and up as well.
See this is how I see it, I am a good caring person and if I was to use the net what is to say there is not another one out there like me. As meeting people off-line and online we just have to just be cautious.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
Hey hardworking girl ,
Thank you for your respond i really appreciate it when i join a site online i just wnat to make friend an chat with other people of interest an all.But sometimes thing happen for a reason.wheather dating online are meeting up for a drink as you said we sould just be cautious and thats the best way to be .have a nice day girl ...bless up
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
18 Oct 10
I have never really trusted trying to date through a site. I do have a friend who is now married to the person he met on a dating site. It seems to have have worked well for them. I personally would not. I do not trust it to be reliable and honest.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 10
well at first i did not trust an till I got my internet at home an have join online dating sites .... and we communicate each an everytime we get get to talk and it work. we just have to get to kno wthe person an talk with especially if your shy the inetr give you more tiem to talk. .
W Asyria a lot of peopel on the internet are hacker liars an all but ist not every body si the same we can not judge the book buy its cover come tiems we just have to communicate with people to get to know if we want to.
But if you dont like i cant make you like thast just your belief ok ......I did it an it work for me an i thank god every day for my Husband and Thank you Tagged. com .....
Thank you for your response ...have a wonderful evening
@ThomasVH (381)
• Belgium
18 Oct 10
I would NEVER date online.. EVER.
For me, meeting someone is only possible in real life, and only in expectional cases this will be a good way to date someone and really fall in love.
Real contact is happening when you can really see each other and hear each other in real life, not in a chat box or what so ever.
Good to hear that your find someone online, but most of the time, this is not the right way to find someone.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Oct 10
well you wont but some other will. you can fall in love in many ways none of us know where our true love is are know where we going to meet them .....especially for the male a lot of them meet female from off the inetrnet an date them some falling love where other broke up ....but every one have their own belief an do their own things thats just life ......
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
25 Oct 10
Well i have dated online an it was a success. But when i join tagged i didn't expect to fine some one their who would become my best friend and all but through communication for a period time time we dicided to meet and have lunch.it take us 3 years before we meet in person.But sometime sthe rusult is not good as you said ,but mine was an its a sucess .
