A female student 20 yrs old fell in love to the hubby of my friend

Philippines
October 19, 2010 5:27am CST
My friend shared to me her problem and stressful life. A 20-yr old female student is often times seeing her hubby, who also enjoyed her presence and left my friend and 2-yr old daughter to his in-laws. The wife is asking for justice and reported the student to the school authorities, and the student promised not to disturbed their family anymore. After sometimes, the student again visited her hubby in his hubby's residence. My friend reported the student again to the Barangay level (lowest court in a city). Again, the student promised to separate from such relationship, but later, she discovered that the student is visiting her hubby again in his parents' residence. What is the best thing to do with this female student? Please help my friend?
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@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 10
just only one way , they must along distance for it cause if they not will be meet again and do it that again until get married but sometimes the love is truly blind dont care who and where from it .. great of love same as crazy
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 12
so whats happen with this case now?? you make this discussion 1 year ago..
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
just recently I met my friend and she told me she caught the two sleeping together in her sister in law's house. She boxed, slapped the student and really gave a good fight. her hubby was shocked and became timid. She was advised by her sister in law to stop because she had already harmed the student and she might be accused by the parents for physical injury. After the incident, my friend separated from her hubby and lived w/ her parents for good. Her husband left the place and we just learned that he lived w/ the student. My friend didn't sue them anymore since she has no money to finance it. She just lived w/ her parents and searched for job for her daughter. What a life!
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
19 Oct 10
She needs to leave the relationship because the husband obviously doesn't have any intention of ending the relationship with the student. I would report it once again but it doesn't seem to be doing her any good. She should just get away from the marriage and move on with her life. She deserves better.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Nov 11
Dear friend, I wished the husband would be aware of his relationship if is not proper. Moreover what actul relationship they have is not much known, what lacks in his actual wife is also not known. I feel it would be bettr talk and settle the matter with husband if the relationship continues may be it would be better her hubby to put his leg on one boat. May be that answer should be got earler. I feel it those couple who have take the decions at the earliest.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
The question is, what is the husband doing? You did not mentioned that guy is involve and why is the wife the only one to solve such headache when in fact the husband should also be held responsible on why that student keeps on returning and harming the family. You should have asked your friend about his husband's participation in this elicit affair. That student is a woman just like her, and she(wife) should confront the husband first with regards to this. Is the husband continuously having an affair even the wife knows about it or not? What is your friend's stand on this one, should she continue and allow this happening to her family and if the husband is cooperating or not, she should decide now.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
10 Jun 12
Part of it, that is this female student's fault. What about your friend's husband, did he agree her visit, and their adultery relationship can't be simply blame on her. If her husband didn't agree with it, no such problem will occur. So, better yet, why not bring all the issue out, and talk it out between their 3 people.