you find out that your sister bf is cheating on her. what do you do? O_O

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Portugal
October 19, 2010 7:41am CST
hi guys^^ imagine that you find out that your sister bf is cheating on her. what do you do? O_O my sister bf didnt cheat on my sister that i think he really doesnt but i was just wondering what people would do if found out that his sister bf/brother gf was cheating on her/him. what would you do? if i found that out i would tell my sister. im sure she would believe me bcs we are good friends and we always share things with each other^^ and i love her so for sure i would tell her what i knew. what about you guys? would you tell right away? or would talk with your sister bf/brother gf to tell that you know everything and of he/she stops that or you tell everything you know. what would you do? please share^^
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16 responses
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Hello sweet, I don't know since i only had two elder brothers. Let me just rephrase the question so that i can relate, since it's cheating that is being asked here. [b]you find out that your sister-in-laws hubby is cheating on her. what do you do? [/b] Yeah, definitely, i would tell her. since this elder sibling was a REAL pain and stranger to me. one day, i just got home from school ijust noticed he kept on shoeing me off asking me to buy stuff. until one day i found a lady in their room. you know, i got fed up when he's also asking me to serve food in this lady. that time i was with my sis in law i told her everything. but what pisses me off is that she told him that it was who revealed it. it was sad but they are still together, my brother changed but that's because they moved to another place.it's one of the factors that feared me from having a relationship as well.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
you told your sister in law?^^ thats too sweet of you. but sorry that she said it was you who told her anyway if he changed now thats good^^ but is he angry with you still? i wish not. about her im surprised that she accepted him back. but dont be afraid to have a relationship^^ there are many girls that are faithful^^
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
19 Oct 10
This would be a difficult scene to take in. i would want to see my sister happy and i would want the cheater exposed. i would tell the cheater what i knew or what I saw. i would give him the chance to tell my sister what he did. if he doesn[t own up to his discretions, then I would sadly have to tell my sister what was going on.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes but if you told him first he could lie to your sister and tell her that you are trying to get him so if you would tell her the truth then thinking he didnt tell she would really think you want him. so better tell her right away. if he wanted to tell your sister he would have tell already before you threaten him so you should tell right away dont you think was better?
@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
19 Oct 10
I would approach that person and let them know that I know what they are doing. I would then give the person the opportunity to come clean before I told my sister. If they didn't come clean within that amount of time I would definitely go to the sister and give her the information. I would be sure to have solid proof if possible.
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• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes bcs if you gave time to the guy he could say that you didnt like him and wanted them to be apart. or that you like him and thats why you want them apart your sister could believe if then you told the truth thinking that he wouldnt tell. thats why i think we should tell right away. the guy if wanted to tell would have tell already and didnt so is bcs doesnt regret. so should tell right away^^ before he lied and put your sister against you
@puccagirl (7316)
• Israel
19 Oct 10
I would obviously tell her too. If my bf did it, I would want to know, so I would treat her the same way I want to be treated, it is only fair.
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• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes^^ i would bcs i couldnt see that guy kiss my sister and knew that he was cheating on her. that would be too bad and too stupid if i hid this. anyway i really wish my sister bf doesnt cheat on her^^ i think he really loves her^^ but i was just wondering what would people do in situations like this and i see that till now they would tell the truth^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
will nt tell my sister abt the truth as she will say tht I am lying :P because she will be in illusion tht herbf loves a lot... better i will make a new gf and will ask her to help in this situation.. ppl likes examples not words :D
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
you should find proves first yes thats true^^ is always better to say show than to say things thats right^^ if you just said yes maybe she could have doubts but if you showed what you saw yes she wouldnt have doubts^^ and yes good idea to find a new gf that cab help you^^ we women are good advisers ahah and are smart too also you deserve a new love^^
• India
20 Oct 10
it is better to wait for the opportunity and then take necessary steps, as without solid proof you cannot convince your sister than her bf is cheating her. It is better not to say or claim in from of her believe me, that your bf is cheating, i saw myself etc etc. Better to wait and watch. if you have any proof then carry on with it, else better to wait for the right time. cheaters can't escape, they will get punishment today or tomorrow, best of luck. :)
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
sorry i see that you saw someone being cheated on and you told what happened and person did believe you right? sorry for it. and sure you are right we need to take proves with us or else she might doubt if he denied it. anyway i dont think it will happen at least i wish so^^ good luck for you too^^ and yes is true cheaters get punished sooner or later.
• India
20 Oct 10
well if any guy cheats my sister first I wouldn't wait to tell it to my sister he will first get a punch from me and a proper waking from me and if he is still alive I would tell him to go to my sister and lye to her feet and tell sorry and if she forgives him then only I would leave him I can see every thing but not tears in my sisters eyes......
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
ahah im happy that you would punch him^^ and then you would tell him to tell your sister but if he didnt tell? would you beat him more? ahah i guess so^^ anyway is true im happy that you wouldnt let a guy make your sister cry^^ no guy deserves girls tears^^ unless is a good and sweet one ahah^^ i like your answer^^
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
For me I get angry to that boy and I hate him.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes sure thats normal that you would hate him bcs he hurt your sister. but wouldnt you tell her what happened? bcs sure you wouldnt like that guy bcs what he did was wrong but you should tell your sister what you knew. so she could leave him and forget and be happy with some other guy in the future. you would tell right?^^ i guess so^^ have a happy day^^
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
If i caught my sister's boyfriend cheating her, I would do the same thing as what would you do...why?..because simply, it is the right thing to do..
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
im happy that you would also tell her what you saw^^ and sure is the right thing to do but maybe we should take a proof with us like a picture or something. so she sees that we are saying the truth. or the guy can deny it and she doubts about us. could happen so to avoid that is always better to have proves^^ thanks for your answer^^ you are a great sister^^
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
..of course ill tell too..but i need to say to her in a nice and proper way..why should i keep it..im no a kin o person that i always keep what hey know..
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
no i mean some people say i wont tell to protect my sister what i think is stupid. bcs of course the person deserves to know. cant be happy with a guy that cheats. and sure you would need to tell her what happened but in a sweet way sure. so she wouldnt feel even worse. is good that you would tell her^^ it means you care for your sister^^
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
o9h,,my ,, of course i will get angry,, and for me i should ,, tell my sister,.,.,. and give some advices,,
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes im happy that you would tell her^^ and sure you should tell your sister bcs if was you and she found out your lover was cheating on you you would want to know also right?^^ and is great that you would give her some advises also^^ thats awesome really^^ you are a good sister^^ but i wish it doesnt happen to your sister^^ have a happy day^^
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I feel bad if the maybe the case. Because it's my sister and I think I said everything to what I know about her bf...so that she may know what to do
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes sure you would feel bad^^ thats normal bcs you dont want your sister to be unhappy^^ anyway im happy that you would tell her everything^^ that way she would know what happened but maybe you should have a proof with you so she wouldnt have doubts. there are people that deny when cheat so she could have doubts and if you showed her she would believe^^
@Pyroo8 (121)
• United States
20 Oct 10
i would st8 up tell her because i prob wouldnt like duke anyway lololo
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
ahah you mean you dont like your sister bf? so if you found out he was cheating on her even faster you would tell? ahah i guess that the guy is really stupid then for you to dont like him^^ but i really wish he likes your sister and dont hurt her^^ anyway is great that you would tell your sister what was going on^^ you are a good guy^^
@toniganzon (53205)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I won't tell my sister, I will show her. Yes, i would investigate his boyfriend first and try to check his daily schedule and then call my sister and tell her I just want to show her something. It's not that my sister would not believe in me if i tell her but i think that it's much better for her to see it for herself.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
yes thats a good idea^^ bcs the guy could also lie to her if you just told that and she couldnt believe you maybe. so yes a proof would be the best^^ you should investigate and then tell her yes bcs that way she wouldnt have doubts. he couldnt deny while that if you just told her he could lie. so yes is always better to see. but wish it doesnt happen to your sister^^
@shaggin (37313)
• United States
19 Oct 10
If someone cheated on me even one time I would want to know so if I knew that my sisters boyfriend was cheating on her I would tell her for sure. I know that she would want to know the truth. I know it would hurt her to know but its for the best. She doesnt need to stay with someone who is a cheater.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
im happy that you would tell her^^ and sure you wouldnt want to be told also if you were the one being cheated^^ i dont understand those people that dont tell bcs their sister cant be happy at all with a guy that cheats on her. even if she gets hurt is ok bcs she will find a better guy in the future^^ but if stays with a cheater that will be impossible to be happy right?^^ im happy you would tell^^
@shibham (17025)
• India
19 Oct 10
no way, my sister is about to marry with her b/f on coming 13 december. just bless her.
• Portugal
20 Oct 10
im happy that your sister will marry soon^^ congratulations to her^^ and sure i wish her the best^^ and nothing bad. this was just a random question to know what would people do if faced this situation^^ anyway im happy that you didnt face this^^ and that your sister fiancee respect her really. wish you the best and for her too^^ have a happy day^^