Most Important Part of the Body

Shoulder for Cry - When you are sad or down, do you like to borrow your friend's shoulder for cry? Just do it and you will definitely feel much better after the cry.
@yspmyl (3435)
Malaysia
October 19, 2010 10:57pm CST
Do you know what is the most important part of the body. My mom used to as me this question. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said to mom is ears. But she said "No" because many people are deaf. After sometime I have think again about the question, I told my mom it is the sight, which is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes. Her answer was "No" because there are many people who are blind. Until one day I realized that the most important part is actually our shoulder, that is the correct answer. It is not because it holds up our head but it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life. When someone have enough love and friends, he or she will probably always have a shoulder to cry on when is needed. Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is sympathetic to the pain of others. People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
20 Oct 10
Hi yspmyl True that the shoulder is an important part of the body but I believe that Heart is more important. I think if you have a caring and loving heart, you can also give hugs and embraces to people whom you would have lent the shoulder and at times these are more soothing that the shoulder to cry on. I believe it is more of the heart that matters because if you are heartless, the shoulder is of no use as no one would use it!!! Cheers, theSids.
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
Hi Thesids, You are right that a hug give much more comfort to people who need it very much and the curing effect is much more faster than any medicine can do..Just like a baby needs the mother's hug to get the warm and love. They will feel more secure and loved when being hugged. So, either to give someone a hug or let him/her lean on your shoulder must involved love and sincere, without any of it, it will be meaningless and no one will use it!
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
20 Oct 10
Wow that means I feel and think from my heart and that seems to be good Cheers
• Singapore
20 Oct 10
I second that.
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• Singapore
20 Oct 10
Hi, Yes, the shoulder is important IF the owner offers it to someone else to lean on. I think it is HEART, the motivation behind it all that is the most important. People will not forget how you made them feel and where does this comes from? It's from the words you said, the things you do that gave people that kind of impression.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
20 Oct 10
Hi bluemoon, You just stole my words... Do we have similar vibes? :)
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
Yes, did good will make people remember you for life. Especially when someone is sad and down, he/she will probably need someone to console him/her. I believe if you are sincerely offer your shoulder to someone who really need it, they will really appreciate it and will remember you for life. Don't you think so?
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• Singapore
20 Oct 10
@thesids, very pleased to hear that you have similar thoughts @yspmyl, yes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. Sometimes, comfort could be in the form of a simple hug and then the whole situation somehow turns brighter and more optimistic.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Oct 10
hi great discussion yspmyl yes you are ri ght, that shoulder is there for a friend to l ean on, to weep on and just to be helped. and knowing you are helping her or him makes you feel happy and needed.Yes we all remember people in our lives who make us feel wanted, needed, happy and loved. My own husband was like that as he was always smiling and his eyes smiled to. He could snap me out of the blues so fast with a joke or just a warm hand around me.When I was frightened to do something he was there to help and was never selfish, a wonderful c heerful outgoing person who m ade me feel special.
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
Hi Hatley, It is wonderful to have someone close that are happy and with loving heart. Whenever you need him, he will be there for you, his shoulder just like a permanent dock for you, and you will know that it is always there and will never turn away from you.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 10
For me all parts of the body are important... because it has its own different purpose that makes us live and see the beauty of the world...
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
That is the physical part of the body, if a physical body do not have a right and good soul in it, it is probably consider as bad body since the soul is bad and it is a waste to have such a nice body or parts. So, to be someone perfect and wonderful, one needed to have a good body part as well as a good heart.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 10
for me my important part of my body is my heart because if you don't have the heart you cannot fell love. but all of our body parts are very important. you cannot feel the feelings how to love, how to get hurt. for me heart is my important part of my body.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
That is true too, with a heart you can feel love and fall in love, with good heart you can do many good things and did good for others people. But what if someone having a bad heart? He probably will not have love in his heart.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 10
..yah.. agree of your answer that is shoulder..now i know too ..this is the time i find the true important part of our body u..thank you for explaining well..its must be the eyes but when i read your discussion i was convince to your answer..it was so great.
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
Well, many people may think of the answer is eye, it is somehow important as the physical part, but when come to the soul, then shoulder will be the most important part that you can share with your friends. So do share it with your friends and your loves one.
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@samson1967 (7414)
• India
20 Oct 10
With the aid of modern medical facilities, we can replace or repair any part of the body, it is not parts of the body, it is how we use them to help others and self. Now I realised that human body is waste without life in it. So life in the body is very vital.
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
I think this is somehow make someone to think deeper about the human body. It is definitely no use to have no life or soul in the body, even if the soul in the body is the bad soul, that will consider a waste too. What for if a body is nice and pretty and without a good soul?
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
21 Oct 10
Thats right my dear friend, Shoulder is one of the best part of the body which can give a right console for our friends, people who you know or don't know. But, a clean & helpful thought is also one of the best part right to provide them a small help when they are in need.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 10
You are so right! I wonder if there are people who give rent out their shoulder to stranger to lean on or cry?
@burrito88 (2774)
• United States
20 Oct 10
Have you never heard of 'turning a cold shoulder'?
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 10
Yes, I have heard of that, that is only apply on people who are cold hearted, or cold blooded. These kind of peoples will not have many friends and will probably do not have shoulder to lean on.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
20 Oct 10
I was going to say "brain" because that's the part that controls everything, and we're all unique in that way. But I guess both eyes, ears, and shoulders are all good ideas too. Maybe all of our parts are equally important..?
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
That is quite right when talk about the physical body parts but when you talk about the soul and love, the shoulder and the heart should become the most important part where you can share with your friends and your loves one.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
For me, heart still have that slot...mot important part...heart has this storage, all emotions, feelings, desire and even hatred is ever seen inside of it. You cannot easily give a shoulder to someone you never know, being him/her close to your heart, will be different...You can offer a shoulder for them to cry on with a feeling of sympathy, compassion, love, sincerity, and care in your heart...Heart with love within will make us all united. Heart is the highest rank in human life.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
25 Oct 10
I wonder whether have such a person who are willing to share out his/her shoulder to someone he/she doesn't know. I don't think it will feel easy and comfortable to lean on someone stranger shoulder and cry.
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I think the most important would be your eyes since it is the only thing that you can see , appreciate things around you and without that i think your world is not complete. Just my own thinking...
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Many said (b)eye(/b) is the windows of our soul, you can see how a person are from his/her eyes. That is quite true, however, the eyes cannot be share to other peoples and you can only use it by yourself. You can't comfort your friends with just your eyes, but it is different when it come to shoulder, where it can be share with your friends and your loves one.
• India
20 Oct 10
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@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
This is a nice one, I think this is kind of heart talk and seem that I will understand what you trying to tell..
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
You have your point, I learned some new things today. Being sensitive to the feelings of other is important.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 10
Haha, sharing is something important to strengthen the friendship. And care for others is something important.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
20 Oct 10
Every part of the body is considered as a n important part because if we miss any part of the body then we feel very pain and also feel very difficulty to do any works. So I think every part of the body is very important. And I think eyes are the most important part of our body because if there is no eyes in our body then how can we see this world.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 10
Yes, you are right when talk about the physical body parts, every part have their own function and are important for the whole body to works. But when talk about the soul in the body, that should be the shoulder with a good heart that willing to share with friends and your loves one. We see things differently when look at another angle.