does someone hate you here on mylot?

Philippines
October 20, 2010 3:08am CST
Just asking. Sometimes, I got bad comments on my post and I think he/she hates my post. No big deal. Just curious if someone hates you or hates what you post. How do you react? what did you feel? Did you reply the comment? LOLS! The saying goes" You can't pleased everyone." Oouchhh.... Happy mylotting!!
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18 responses
@AKRao24 (4248)
• India
20 Oct 10
So far I never received any thing which implies that some one hates me. Opposing one's views is not hating. I feelevery one here have the freedomof expression and every one may not agree to what we say, under such circumstances we may get some responses contradicting our views. But then it is very natural and if I get any thing like that then I either try to explain the member further or ignore him/her. However some times because of misunderstanding the topic often people end upwith posting some silly responses,which I naturally don't pay any heed to! Thanks ,good one! I liked participating in it!
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Oh yes.. Opposing one's views is not hating. We have the freedom of expressions so we may agree or disagree on someone else views. Now, i don't have to hate them.:)
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@johan143 (165)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I also do receive bad comments but never mind them especially when they are too rude with their responses. Do not let them affect you, just don't do it also to others. constructive criticism though may help you sometimes or challege you to do better. I did not reply to the comment because i have no time for them especilly when they do not know the answer to my discussion but they only pretend to be intellegent and rude, no manners.
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I Hate those people who misinterpret what i posted. But i couldn't care less. I have to understand that they are exercising their right of freedom and speech. ^^
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@neelia_lyn (1388)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Msybe you just got it all wrong. On the other site that i work with, they laughed at my post that they did not understood. feels like as i was mocked and i was a bit embarrased. of course i have to explain my side because some were ignorant of the post i made.
@tomitomi (5441)
• Singapore
20 Oct 10
Hi tess_quinain! Love your positive outlook. Way to go!
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• India
24 Oct 10
Hello tess So far i have never experienced this , no body says openly that he/she hates me, my discussions or comments, we are here not to quarrel or fight lol.. Thanks for sharing. Professor. . Cheers
@tonyllenium (6267)
• Italy
23 Oct 10
MMh in reality i think not but i am not really sure.when i answer to a discussion i just give my opinion and so this can be positive or negative depending from different users,discussion's aim and so on...so normally i ahve a positive approach to discussions and if people will think they are bad..what can i do?
@trickiwoo (2703)
• United States
23 Oct 10
I don't think I've made any MyLot enemies! It's hard not to find people you disagree with on a website that encourages discussions of a wide range of topics! And I often read posts I completely disagree with and are sometimes even offended by! But I do respect the fact that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and there are lots of people out there with opinions I don't agree with! So I definitely don't take it personally or think any less of the person just because we don't agree! Occasionally I will see someone get so worked up over an issue they resort to personally attacking other users. And even then I wouldn't say I hate them for doing that! I understand that a lot of people are very sensitive about some issues and it's easy to get really worked up when other people don't see things the same way you do. I just feel sad that they have to resort to personally attacking other people and can't just agree to disagree!
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 10
People can say anything they like, this is after all a democratic mylot. I thought every is a friend here and some might not agree with our posts but that doesn't mean they hate us. There is no reason to hate anyone here. Mylot is a platform for friendships.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Yeah, I guess so. I can think of only one person but he doesn't comment frequently on my posts. There was only that one time wherein we had an argument and I chose to walk away after that. He only gave me a negative rate enough to make my 9 red star turn back to an 8 yellow star.
• China
21 Oct 10
i am so sorry to hear that you can't get respect from the person in mylot,i want to help you ,but you should be sure that i can see you article,i believe we can be good friends.
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
You are right if that person don't like you then ignore him/her, you can't pleased everyone. There are lots of people wanted your company anyway. She/He is just a waste of time, right?
@cedythra (196)
• Finland
21 Oct 10
no, no one as far as i know. well i am not even that active here. not responding to every other discussion that comes up lol :D
@liza21 (180)
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
I agree with the last line that you posted... "You can't really please everyone...", but I have not experienced having bad comments on my posts, hope not in the future. Maybe that's really how they feel.
@keshia2007r (2886)
• United States
20 Oct 10
i had a similar discussion topic awhile back. i would have to say no. back when i was active on mylot every day. i ran into a few people who i would rather now have comment on my disucssions. but mylot is a free place, and anybody gets to participate. so now i feel all opinions are worth at least reading. even if you don't agree. but currently no, i do not know of anybody how hate me on mylot. if so, too bad. lol
• Philippines
20 Oct 10
Hate is such a strong word but I think someone possibly might be annoyed of me. LOL. And yes you are right, we can't please everybody. Take care, tess. =)
@vijay12 (1643)
• India
20 Oct 10
So far such a thing has not happened to me here at myLot.
@sajujohn (1009)
• India
20 Oct 10
Any way I haven't got any one yet.So probably I think Iam not.But don't know whether I have been or not.I anyone hates my post here in mylot of course they can tell me open heartedly.Then only I can improve my posts according to their wish.I will accept it only in positive way....
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
20 Oct 10
No anybody hates to me on this site. Because every person give me help when I needed. And when I feel any problem then I posted my problems through my discussion and after some times I get many responses for this discussion. And sometimes I have found a best solution for my problem. Si I don’t think that anyone hate to me on this site.