i am right or not

China
October 20, 2010 10:07pm CST
Now i will be graduate soon, so i'm busy with my thesis and finding a job. Unfortunately, both of them don't go smoothly. While, my girlfriend want to travel with me in her vacation, but i have no time and in no mood for a travelling. so i refuse her suggestion, and it can't be wondered at that she is angry with that. So i want to know whether i have any mistake in this issue?
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4 responses
@arunmails (3013)
• India
21 Oct 10
[b]Time and Tide waits for none. Your girlfriend will be with you always, even if she fought with you or not. But, time will not be with you. If this second is lost, then it is lost. It will not come back to see you again. But, your girlfriend will come back to see you again. So, you have not done any mistake, continue with your thesis and finding a job. Then, after finding a job, you can have a big trip with your girlfriend with lot of money.[/b]
• China
21 Oct 10
thank you! I agree with your point. i hope she can consider that calmly
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
That's a very hard decision to make between your love life and your career. Talk to her about your priorities and plans in life. Just give her time to understand that you are busy because sometimes we (girls) are pretty selfish of our boyfriend's time..:)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Based on your post, I don't see any part on saying your reason on refusing her suggestion. So for now, its still an unresolved problem. Because telling your reason might just be the way to find out if she is really mad at you or not and besides she might also accept it and have the time to help you in your thesis or finding a job. It would be more likely a travel for you are still spending time together, only that you are staying in the same place. Right? ;P For now, its still a wrong thing that you have done, but not until you tell her your reason. I hope i was able to help you... ;)
@Sheeny (173)
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
I think she will understand you as long as you have a good reason why you refused her. love is understanding.