how to overcome...

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 25, 2010 2:18pm CST
how to overcome someone completely... as when u r with ur X, u must hv visited many places and movies u have made in cinema hall.. also there are many songs which are attached with the face of ur X... how to get rid of this and forget him/her completely ??
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@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
It is not that easy to forget someone whom you loved for so long. Honestly speaking, you won't forget them completely. The feeling may be gone, but circumstances will find a way to make you remember that person. And chances are one could find themselves talking to them. Surrender everything to time, or to any divine providence (what or whomever they may be) the period to heal. You may be in the arms of another person, but you will catch yourself thinking about the lover whom you once had. You will ask yourself as to where and how they are now. The best thing you can do is to learn from the failed relationship. Always look at the bright side of life. If ever you find yourself meeting your ex, just remember: Do not be harsh on yourself, but instead learn to forgive yourself. Forgive each other. Do not blame one another, because chances are both of you were at fault. Thank each other for those times when you were together. Laugh about your relationship by saying that both of you lived happily ever after, but not with each other. :D
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
May be u r rite till extent but for mer my present gf has given soo much tht i dnt go to my X memories !! so better have I got, worst I have frgot
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@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
26 Oct 10
It is difficult to overcome someone completely. I know in time it is possible but it will take a lot of work. To get over someone you once loved you have to hold your head up high and try to move on to different things. Try doing somethings that the two of you never did together. Try something new and do something just for yourself.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
yh agree to it... bt yes If u get sum1 who is better thn ur X thn moving on is easier... ! its lik hw u want to take ur life... surely destiny play role bt ur inerself n motivational factor comes into count for sure...
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@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
27 Oct 10
But you should never just jump from one relationship to another to make yourself feel better. This almost never works out because the person you find just tends to become a rebound person and used only for that moment. Take some time to find yourself and figure out what it is that you want out of life. Then when you know you will be better prepared for a relationship.
• United States
26 Oct 10
Okay, well forget statistics here. Here is the reality, you never, NEVER, forget your first love. With time, and the varies from person to person, will depend on when you move on and when it feels right to move on. When my brother's girlfriend lost my brother (my brother passed away four years ago), it hurt her like Hell. She was so lost without him. She did graduate from college, and she is going grad school, but she feels like it isn't the same without my brother. She is very young, and she will move on eventually, but it will take time. She has been trying to date, but let's face it, no one is like my brother. My brother was one of a kind. He was very unique. If it takes her ten years to move on, then so be it.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
yes u r rite dear... very tough to forget sum1 whom u loved and let other girls to be on a side... I hope for her tht she can move on as damm tough I agree to this bt No other option...
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• United States
26 Oct 10
Well, the other option is, you can choose to never love again, or never be with anyone again after you have been with that person. I have seen people who after their first loves die, they never fall in love again because they can't. My grandmother was one of those people.
@hushi22 (4940)
26 Oct 10
accept the fact that it's over and go the places that do not remind you of your ex. spend time with friends/something that will inspire and make you happy. enjoy your life.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
if u have been to ur fav. places with ur gf thn tough tto frng her :P
• Portugal
25 Oct 10
you just have to put in your head and in your heart that she doesnt love you anymore and forget^^ isnt so easy but if you avoid to listen that songs and see the videos you made together is a good way to start forgetting^^ when you dont see her as your gf anymore you can listen those songs again^^ but while dont forget is better to dont be near things that can remember you of her^^
@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
well I agree with u whatever u said... bt sumtimes it happens tht u recall ur X as... it is X factor so will always be with u :P lol...