Should being successful be the only motive of our life?

@JackRoy (243)
United States
October 26, 2010 5:11am CST
We all run after success. All we want in our life is to be a successful man in terms of profession. In the race of being successful we all squander away our moral value as human being. In todays world we all have become self centered forgetting we have some additional responsibility which are very crucial to be a perfect human being. Should being successful be our only motive in life? What else do you do barring earning money and running family that make you feel proud, make you feel a real human being?
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Oct 10
Life shouldn't just be about achieving success. Living life in the best way that e can that pleases us and makes us happy and fulfilled should be our goal in life. It isn't about what we accomplished or not.
@JackRoy (243)
• United States
3 Nov 10
I completely abide by you. We should not run after success only. There are still a lot of things are left in this world to do. Simply do not forget your morale duty as human being. That's what we all should think.
• India
26 Oct 10
If you run for excellence success will run for you. But if you run for success it will only run away from you. Although the fact that everyone eventually wants success is true. Everyone loves to taste the fruit of success. Humans are like that. Some may deny it but they know deep inside they want success too. Well being a good person and following the right path for everything even for success should be the true motive. Have a nice day and happy my lotting!! :)
@JackRoy (243)
• United States
3 Nov 10
Thnx simon for your valuable comment. Like you I will not say all run after success rather still there are some ppl around you left who still make no compromise with their morale value. Though the number of them are very less and disappearing day by day fast.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
I am confuse. Right now, I am thinking that gossips that break my day and I am unable to forget it. I am confident this is what I need to continue my life as a daughter, sister and employee.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
For me not it is matter of what you are in the heart of Jehovah God if you are knowing the accurate acknowledgment in him then you would be success in every aspect of your life.
• India
26 Oct 10
Well Sir ... the world is round and so are humans ! We run after success,money,fame,popularity ,etc, and the same things runs away from you . People who are after perfection tend to get what the rest run behind . Bill Gates never knew that he would be worlds richest man when he had developed Windows.Mark Zuckerberg had developed Facebook only to get in touch his friends , but was least aware that he would be worlds youngest and most successful Entrepreneur ! This is what we can call as success running after us . However, we need to be realistic at the same time. In todays hectic world , all what is respected and cared is Success. hence everybody wants to be successful or ich at any cost. Some people have their principles intact and do not believe in Un-ethically acquired success , whereas others who don't know what principles and moral values are , tend to do anything which will get them a step up to success. The end decision is always called the wisest decision !
@JackRoy (243)
• United States
3 Nov 10
You are right mate. We all run after money and success, not after excellence. But instead if you run after excellence everything will run after you. The example you gave are very good. I am kinda thankful to you, coz what I wanted to say you made it clear. Thnx again mate.
• India
28 Oct 10
yeah.... What you are saying is absolutely right.In the race of we are forgetting ourselves as humanbeings. And i think its the time to think what we are and why we are doing all these things. if money is the only reason better we should drop from the race. Because if earn money being immoral and forgetting ourselves there wont be any difference between machines and us ofcourse we can talk. that may be the only difference. only money will not be sufficient for being a happy fellow in life. There are some morals, and obeying those morals and helping the needy people, doing goodthings and acheiving and contributing some thing that is benefitial to the society and world i mean for the PEOPLE... then it will be the real acheivement in life. and this will make one to feel as a real human... I think soooo....!!!!
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
26 Oct 10
no, it should be what makes one happy.
@small541 (26)
• China
26 Oct 10
i think ,first of all ,we should get the materials which is the necessity and then consider the question you have raised above. and i deem everybody should share their happiness with other people and to be helpful human-being ,and of course,to be a thoughtful man is important. try our best to help the other people when we spare no effors to pursue our goal .
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
All of us, in some form or another, want to have the best car, the best home heck even the best of what the world has to offer. However we must not limit ourselves to such things because being successful is just part of the bigger picture in this stage we call life. Everyone desires success even if it means sacrificing anything or everything in the process but we should not let it dictate our life goals because we gave other responsibilities to fulfill to the world and being successful is just one of those responsibilities. We can find satisfaction in life by involving yourself in social programs like helping the poor or helping in the community in which you live in and there is also the option of promoting a social and/or moral issue and helping change the world for the better. I personally am involved in one of my churchs outreach programs and It feels that I am accomplishing something that is teaching people the word of God and helping them believe in themselves. That for me is something to be proud of and you can do it too if you are willing to use your time. Therefore, it takes more than success to become a real human being. It is much more than having a family and being financially well-off. If you have truly succeded in life you would not be struggling right now would you?