Would you tell if you're moving?

@creyos (276)
Indonesia
October 28, 2010 3:25pm CST
Let's say you already had a plan to move out to new far place, before you met your newly boyfriend (bf)/girlfriend (gf). Usually a new couple, during the digging up process will be in a romantic and sweet moment. As if you don't want to lose the sweet days, or probably you just can't accept the fact that he/she decide to break. Would you tell him/her about your plan in advance or just few weeks before you move out?
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3 responses
28 Oct 10
I would have to tell her if it was me because i would feel bad for leading them to think they i will be there for a long time, obviously people always move but it wouldn't be fair to not tell the other person. I know you wouldn't want to miss out on fun you would have with them and you may still get it because not all people would leave you because you are moving soon. You can always stay in touch when you move if you both want to.
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@creyos (276)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
Thanks! you are right and it's even better now after telling the plan ;)
@rein2410 (809)
• Australia
29 Oct 10
I will actually tell them about it just because it is really important, its important to get prepared for it in the long run than having the shock in the long run. Its just not right... and you should not get too close if you know that you cannot get on with the relationship because it will only gonna hurt more
@creyos (276)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
It's true I shouldn't get too close, but can't fight this feeling :P
@hushi22 (4940)
29 Oct 10
if i am in this situation i will tell him ahead of time so that we can help our relationship to grow amidst the anticipated distant.