The things to think about in courtship
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
October 30, 2010 5:51am CST
courtship can make not clear the relationship and the status of a person. Conjugal relationship, not .. family relationships also not, but being intimate as such husband and wife. But when the girl pregnant, then the male can leave the girl with free to find new girl other .. there is no criminal law in the case of pregnancy outside of marriage on the basis of consensual.
The male who like courtship actually not a real man!. Only brave toying with women's feelings .. not serious to love a girl . . not dare to directly talk to the parents of the girl .. have millions reasons to delay marriage and prefer to live together without a marital relationship with a reason to become more familiar with the prospective partner ..
Women who love courtship actually the cheap of women, easy to release honor and her dignity to a male without a valid bond. If he has boring, she easy to remove him and find another boyfriend again .. really cheap women !
No one guarantees that courtship can eternal till marriage, even if until marriage .. surely in marriage often tinged brawl .. believe it or not .. Believe it ! because when courtship, often do communicate with her couple .. sometimes intimate - romantic but other time, fight ! but what would happen if these couple without a clear bond this often fight ? in the end .. they looking for another couple, but fight and broke again, looking for again, broke again .. continue to do so until they get bored
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@starlight_starbright (810)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Hello there!
I guess you have the wrong concept of COURTSHIP or maybe you have found a different meaning of it in your dictionary. I must disagree when you said that WOMEN WHO ENJOY COURTSHIP ARE CHEAP. Courting a woman does not mean sleeping with her. Courtship in the real sense is a way of a man to get to know the girl, may it be serious or not. It is the most fun and memorable stage of a couple before becoming a couple until they get married. Even married, a husband could still court his wife. Courting is a very vital thing for two people before being together. I don't know for other races but it is such a shame for us women to have a boyfriend without experiencing courtship. During courtship, it's the time a guy would first give flowers and chocolates, take the girl out for dinner date, calling the girl often and anything a man can do to win the heart of the woman he loves. It is the time when the man expresses his love through actions. No relationship does not start in courtship. Except for other sorts of relationship that does not lead to a serious one. No matter how many women you have courted, you still have to court her no matter what. If you don't want to court a girl, there you might end up with the cheap ones! No offense. I am a woman and please hear out what a woman says. ^_^
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
yeah...u got the wrong meaning of the word. courtship means getting to know each other for a while so you dont end up in one night stand. girls should play hard to get while boys make the first move and show effort. sad to say, most girls now are easy to get.
