do you think you are sexy?^^

sexy ^^ - girl trying to look sexy^^
Portugal
October 30, 2010 3:16pm CST
hi guys^^ do you think you are sexy?^^ about me i dont think i am sexy^^ i dont have a cute body and my face isnt that cute. i dont think i have great looks actually but i wish i was more sexy^^ not bcs of guys but bcs i would like to wear cute dresses and shorts and bcs im a bit fat i dont look good if wear shorts. i will try to lose weight. so can wear cuter clothes^^ what about you guys?^^ do you think you are sexy?^^ please share^^
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18 responses
• United States
30 Oct 10
Don't be so hard on yourself! Sexy appeal or sexiness is not all about the way you look. It's about your confidence and the way u carry yourself. if you have confidence in yourself and think you are sexy then others will. I am overweight and yes I would like to lose weight, but I love myself anyways. I don't let otheers see my insecurities and carry myself with confidence. I always tell myself I am sexy even if someone might not think I am. And I'm pretty sure there are people you know who think you are. Just give yourself credit and learn to love you, and others will too. Tell yourself u are sexy, believe it, carry yourself that way and you will be sexy! :o)
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ahah thanks ceecee^^ yes sure is ok if you also are like me^^ and sure if you believe you are sexy thats great^^ me also i should believe that bcs there are boys that like girls that are a bit fat^^ i will trust more in myself^^ but i would like to lose a bit of weight really so can use cuter clothes^^ you are right in what you said bcs attitude counts much also for someone to be considered sexy^^ thanks so much for your supporting words^^
• Mexico
31 Oct 10
Hi ceecee: nice words. I tottally agree with you. If you feel beautiful people will notice this and that is the big difference. Sexyness depends in a 50% on your attitude 25% in the things your dress and finally 25% on nature. So almost everybody could look sexy
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
thats cute that you see things that way alvaro ahah^^ 50% in confidence and 25% in clothes then no one needs to be pretty ahah^^ thats cute to think that way^^ but i guess you are right^^ there are many girls that are models and arent pretty and many people say they look amazing and very pretty but if you see face clearly they arent. at least sometimes i hear some people say a model is pretty and her face isnt pretty at all but i guess bcs her confidence they say that^^ also bcs some traces on her face^^
31 Oct 10
beauty is on the inside, im not sexy but would rather have someone who is down to earth and a great personality rather than looks. Over time looks do fade, the heart always stays the same, im not sexy at all, but i do have a very good heart.That has to count for something.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes beauty is on the inside^^ and is good that you dont care much for looks also in girls^^ is true that looks go away with time and our heart stays the same^^ is ok if you are not sexy^^ if you have a very good heart thats what matters^^ about me when i like a guy i care for his heart and for him making me laugh ahah^^ my bf is cute he is but i dont love him bcs of that^^ i love him i dont know why^^ i just know that i can trust him blindly. even when we were friends only. i always had this sensation.. even i couldnt love him and always loved other guy i knew i could trust him. i feel something strange. maybe for some past life i dont know. but i feel i can trust him^^ thats why i want so much to be with him^^
31 Oct 10
trust is big, amazed you can trust someone you never see though. But some people follow their hearts and not what their heads say.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
yes craigy^^ i always follow my heart. bcs even i get hurt at least i act as i feel happy. if i dont do what heart says i will never know what could had happened. so i rather wait and see what he will do. but for now i wont hope much anymore. i dont want to get hurt again. for now if he wants to care i be happy but if he doesnt then i will have to leave him. doesnt make sense be with someone that doesnt have time for me.
• United States
31 Oct 10
Absolutely not. I genuinely can't stand the way I look at all. But I try not to obsess over it anymore, I am what I am and there's nothing I can do to change it so I just deal with it.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
sorry but you should like yourself more^^ if your hubby loves you is bcs you have something special^^ im happy that you dont worry with it anymore^^ and accepted to be as you are^^ is true that we cant change the way we look like^^ at least our face we cant^^ and our body sometimes too^^ so we should be happy with what we have thats true^^
• United States
31 Oct 10
Thanks, but I don't really agree. I honestly just thinks he has bad taste or is in the state of "I love you so you're beautiful no matter what you look like" so I really don't trust his opinion.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
ahah but at least loves you^^ so thats the most important right?^^ we all end being ugly anyway when we become so old^^ so why worry so much with beauty? heart and personality is the most important^^ also a guy that can make you laugh^^ that way you never get bored^^ and always feel happy^^ anyway for sure your hubby loves you and is sweet^^ or else you wouldnt be with him^^
@kayevin (227)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I personally think that Im sexy.I look good and my body is fit.Im also tall.I think its on the person,.if he or she thinks he/she is sexy,.then its definitely true.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thats good that you trust yourself^^ and sure if you are fit that means you have a sexy body^^ and i guess you are right that if someone feels he/she is sexy thats true^^ i also believe in that bcs confidence counts much^^ im happy that you feel handsome^^ and i wish that that never changes^^ we should always believe we look good^^
@kayevin (227)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
yah right.they said I look like rukawa and a celebrity also here in phils. ^_^
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thats cute^^ my bf is filipino also^^ rukawa? sorry i dont know who he is^^ and what celebrity there in pinas you look alike? i know that my bf likes something padilla i cant remember the first name^^ its his idol ahah^^ anyway is good that people say that you look like a superstar^^ thats cute and sweet^^ im really happy for you^^ that helps you with girls too for sure^^ ahah also you seem sweet so ^^ have a happy week^^
@bird123 (10344)
• United States
31 Oct 10
I know a guy who is a photographer of beautiful models. He always gets a great shot. He said there is a secret. It isn't enough that a model is beautiful. It's only when the model really believes she is beautiful will it show up in the pictures.It's the same way in life. What a person believes is often what they become. If you don't really believe you are beautiful and sexy, why would anyone else think so either??? You know,there is no one in the universe exactly like you. Doesn't that make you special?????BELIEVE IT!!!! As for me.You already know I'm sexy. Everyone really thinks so when they gaze into my eyes. I can see you have great eyes as well.
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I absolutely agree with you! We should believe in ourselves. ^_^
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
oh you know a photographer?^^ thats cute^^ yes i guess that confidence matters a lot^^ thats true if you believe you are sexy you will look sexy^^ we need to take care of ourselves and trust in our beauty^^ and yes is true that we all have a different face, a different body so we all are special^^ im happy that you think you are sexy^^ we must like ourselves^^ thanks so muchy for like my eyes^^ and thanks for your sweet answer^^ auds thats true^^ if we dont trust in ourselves who will?^^
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Honestly, NO, i don't find myself sexy.But im not too hard on myself. I love my body because it's what God have given me so i have to accept it. So don't be too hard on yourself too and accept what you have right now. Each one of us has its own beauty and uniqueness inside and out.
• Portugal
3 Nov 10
thats cute that you like your body^^ you are right its what god gave you so you have to accept it^^ no dont worry im not too hard on myself^^ what can i do? if i have this body i have to let it be^^ unless i lose a bit of weight^^ what would be great really^^ is true that everyone has their own beauty and uniqueness^^ im happy that you are always positive^^
• Mexico
31 Oct 10
Hi sweet love forever: I don't think about me like a sexy person but I do my best to look ok choosing my dresses and I also do some exercise not only to look good but for my health. Thanks for asking us this question. ALVARO
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
hi alvaro^^ im happy that you take good care of yourself^^ that makes a guy sexy^^ so dont worry im sure a lot of girls will like you^^ and sure you should make exercise also for your health^^ dont need thanking me for making this discussion^^ i thank you for answer my discussions sometimes^^ thats very sweet of you and i really appreciate it^^ answer always^^
• India
31 Oct 10
well I don't look that good but then also I have girls behind me so I don't care about my looks.....
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
but before you always said that you looked good. why now you say you dont? anyway is good that you have girls behind you as long as you dont give them attention bcs you have a gf ^^ so you need to respect her and dont let those girls come too close^^ they know that you have a gf right?^^ ahah i know that for some girls that doesnt mean nothing..
@wongchoiyee (6513)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 10
I think I am a bit sexy when I wear skirts to work. I feel people are watching me now and then. But deep down I am not pretty and I am not slim but I feel that you can be sexy in every way, though! Have a nice day :)
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
ahah thats cute that you feel sexy^^ and sure guys always look to girls legs when they wear skirts or shorts ahah^^ but is good that they do that sometimes so you feel pretty^^ anyway dont think that you are not pretty^^ besides pretty and sexy have different meanings^^ some people are sexy and not pretty^^ and some are pretty and not sexy^^ at least sexy you are or they wouldnt look at you^^ and about pretty for sure you are also^^ trust more in you^^ have a happy day too^^
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
31 Oct 10
I have never thought of myself as sexy. i just don't think i have the body to be called that.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
oh i see^^ but you should trust yourself more^^ maybe some guys think that you are sexy^^ you never know^^ i think that there is at least one person in the world that thinks we are sexy or pretty^^ we all have good things^^ we just have to show it^^ and dont hide it^^ also if we take good care of our image we can be sexy for sure^^ trust more^^
@stanley777 (7177)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
for you how do you define sexy? for me one could be sexy even she/he is not good looking.one can be sexy in the way she carries her clothes or the way she walks.one can be considered sexy even she's fat.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes i guess that sexy are not just those that are good looking^^ is like you say we can be sexy for the way we walk, clothes we are wearing, the way we talk^^ the way we smile^^ and yes fat girls can be sexy also bcs some guys like girls a bit fat^^ also a friend of mine said that almost all fat girls had a cute face^^ i think that anyone can be sexy^^ as long as take good care of himself~^
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
They're right! You shouldn't be hard on yourself. See, I just gave birth 4weeks ago and I have stretch marks on my tummy and thighs. I have fat hanging on my tummy and huge hips. But I still feel sexy AND beautiful. I stopped being insecure of my looks a long time ago. I could stay in front of the mirror all day and pinpoint all my imperfections but it would only depress me. So I started on focusing on the things about my body that I like and I accentuated that. Plus, my husband is doing a great job of making me feel sexy everyday. He compliments me whenever he can. Its about confidence. Confidence is sexy.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thanks^^ yes sure im happy that you feel sexy^^ i think that the fact that you have a sweet hubby beside you saying that you are sexy thats great^^ you are lucky^^ my bf also says he loves me for who i am but he almost dont have time for me. also we live so far.. anyway im happy that you dont go look in the mirror and point negative things about yourself. that for sure would be depressing and no one deserves to be that depressed^^ and i agree that confidence is sexy^^ have a happy day with your sweet hubby and your baby^^
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@nikramos (701)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
i think i am heheheh. not because im physically sexy but because i fully embrace my sexuality and im not afraid to let my hair down especially at the right time and with the right person- with my boyfriend, that is. i feel confident in my skin and i do what pleases me and my partner. it's not all about wearing sexy outfits or baring a lot. another thing that makes a person sexy is being smart. it sure works every time. a sensible conversationalist is ALWAYS sexier.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes thats good that you think you are sexy^^ is important to trust ourselves^^ and sure is good that you feel confident and do what you and your lover like^^ and sure being sexy is not just about sexy clothes^^ but also about feeling good about ourselves^^ also being smart is important too^^ and talk much and in a nice way also^^ bcs that way other person wont feel bored of having you around^^ thanks for your answer^^
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
Hi sweetloveforeve! Don't feel that for yourself. Not because you don't have that perfectly shaped body or perfectly beautiful face doesn't mean that you can be sexy. Every girls/women deserves to be and to feel sexy,weather if they're fat or not so beautiful. Being sexy should come from yourself,you should be confident of what you are and what you looked. You could add your sexiness by being smart. I adore girls that are smart,independent and confident very very sexy even without that perfectly beautiful face or sexy body rather than those girls who are have the sexy body but doesn't have any sense talking to. I too am not that sexy,I'm quite a chubby person,but I am confident that I could talk to anyone of any class of person,because I believe that sexiness comes from within. ^_^. And you too are sexy.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thanks for your sweet answer^^ yes you are right^^ heart is also important to make someone sexy or not^^ if a guy is handsome but is stupid means nothing^^ and im happy that you feel you are sexy^^ and im sure that you can talk with all kind of people you are very sweet^^ and about being chubby yes i guess that chubby people can be sexy too bcs there are guys that like girls a bit fat^^ so if we see we all are sexy ahah^^ continue trusting yourself much^^ and thanks for giving me confidence^^
• United States
30 Oct 10
Not only do I find gorgeous, great looking and sexy. I get reminded daily by my wonderful boyfriend. See what you feel like and how you look should not emulate how you speak about yourself. You are pretty I have seen you picture and may I say that it does not matter how a person looks but rather how they carry themselves. So do me a favor Missy and start looking in the mirror and tell yourself you are gorgeous and never let anyone tell you otherwise. OK!! You have a wonderful heart I can see that by how you respond to your discussions so imagine the most beautiful sexy and gorgeous woman in the world treating people nasty. This makes her not so sexy as it is what comes out of a person not what people are looking at. So I want to hear from you that each day you tell your self that no one is as gorgeous as you.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
you are so sweetie^^ im happy that your bf tells you everyday that you are gorgeous^^ and that you feel happy with yourself^^ thanks for say that im pretty^^ i will try to trust more in myself^^ about my heart thanks so much^^ you also are a great girl and im sure thats why you have a wonderful bf^^ bcs you deserve it^^ and sure the heart also counts^^ if a guy is handsome but is bad to girls doesnt interest^^ like girls too^^ thanks so much for your sweety answer^^
@HADDOWZ (1481)
30 Oct 10
Interesting and unusual question you ask. It makes a refreshing change, well done. Everyone is sexy to the right person, what one person likes certainly may not be what another likes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Dont judge a book by it's cover. There is someone out ther for everyone. And of course, there's plenty more fish in the sea. You have to define what you mean by the word 'sexy' , does sexy only mean you are good looking ? or does personality count ? Great question to ask Have a smooth day
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
i guess that you are right^^ everyone is sexy bcs what i think is sexy other people can disagree^^ so if we see everyone is pretty then ahah^^ you used a lot of good expressions to make people feel pretty ahah^^ i didnt mean personality here but looks only^^ but sure personality can make someone sexy thats true^^ but you? do you think you are sexy?^^ thanks for like my discussion ^^ feel welcome to answer my other discussions too^^ have a happy day^^
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
I wish I am sexy!I am thin and bonny. I want to gain a little weight and have my body shape more curvy.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
gain weight is easy^^ just try to eat more^^ but lose weight is harder^^ also there are girls that take vitamins that doctors give to them for them to gain a bit of weight^^ is true that guys like girls a bit more curvy but is ok if you are thin^^ at least you can wear sexy clothes^^ also if you wear for example shorts and a top thats sexy even if you are thin and not curvy^^ sometimes is the clothes that we wear that also helps us to look more sexy^^
11 Aug 11
I don't think I am sexy. The only part of me i like is my eyes,my lips and my boobs. I kind of like my scars from when I used to self harm,because it reminds me of life and how far I have come from such a dark time in my life. I've always had emotional problems with the way I look. I always look for the negative in myself. I don't know why, I just can't look in the mirror and feel completely happy with myself. There is always something that needs to be changed or perfected. Weather that is adding more mascara onto my eye lashes or wishing my nose was nicer. I wish i wasn't so negative though. I wish i never listened to the people in school who were bullying me. saying that, however, being in a serious loving relationship I am now starting to feel a little happier with myself. Not because of my looks but because of what my boyfriend says he likes about me & the way he loves me / hugs me / says to me etc...