live alone or family?

India
October 30, 2010 11:55pm CST
In todays world ,youngsters wants to remain alone in their life. Many youth wants to remain unmarried in their life. This culture tends to become more popular among youths worldwide. In married life there are lot of family issues to be addressed, which are useless even addressed correctly. But in unmarried life , there will be no probelms except in the old age. Do you think this culture among youths are correct? Does the unmarried life gives probelm free life. What do you think?
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16 responses
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
1 Nov 10
I see nothing wrong with young people living at home until they get married or whatever.As long as they have a job and contribute to the family. Like paying rent,doing their own laundry and so on. I know a 26 year old who has a full job but doesn't contribute anything and lives at home! Now that isn't right! As long as the adult child is not a free loader I see nothing wrong with it!
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
1 Nov 10
I think the reason many young ppl have decided to wait to marry is b/c there are a lot of divorces...not to mention that they are trying to start their careers. It's really hard on a young person to juggle a marriage and a job. I think it's better for them to wait a little longer and have a little more solid of a foundation rather than rush in and end up divorced. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
@primeaque86 (8113)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
I know it is very hard to answer, single individuals just practice what they have seen in their surrounding most often, and try to prevent it from happening to them as well. They often got the news of broken family, divorce, and a lot devastating family problems. But actually if you are going to look down far behind, you should not remain single actually in the rest of your life. In my very own opinion, i will not stay single or unmarried of course. I want a family of my own, one happy family. I feel alone and incomplete this time, and i should have the woman to care and love for, and even a child to nurture... Though this dreams is not easy, the common problems sometimes is youngster act rushly! Because marriage or a bid goodbye to being single must be thought a hundred times if one already and finally find the perfect partner he/she will going to spend the rest of his/her life with... Happy mylotting.
• Indonesia
1 Nov 10
i prefer to live with family because we are social creature.
@josendo (21)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I am still single, but tend to choose a married life. For me, those family issues and problems can be avoided, provided that before a couple decided to be together, both of them must be ready in all aspects of life to the consequences of what they are heading for. Coz, if they were just do marriage for the sake of curiosity, automatic everything will be just a mess up. But if they have the love, respect and understand each other , when time of trouble comes, love and respect will put everything in place just the way it must be.
• United States
31 Oct 10
I got married and had kids at age 20. i think thats still pretty normal
• Indonesia
31 Oct 10
I prefer live with my family because family can make me happy.
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
i would love to stay with my family until i get married. for me being with my parents feel me secure and happy. it is a way to bond with them. i am not preferring this because i am not capable of supporting myself. yes i am still a college student and i am the most willing person to help them when they need anything.
@misterMR (797)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I'd prefer to be with my family. Being single is, in my opinion, great but you tend to have social problems. If your the family-guy-type, you would get lots of problems, of course, with the family. However, you would get to socialize more often (even if quarreling is considered, still you open your mouth and talk. :D) and one learns and accepts mistakes easily when your with family. Being with the family is hard, you have to take care of them. Nevertheless, by the time you get old, your family will take care of you. :D
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
For me because I love my family then I would not live alone.
• China
31 Oct 10
I think yes~ the unmarried life gives free life,live alone feel like freedom,but sometimes do have feeling lonely, when you want to talk there has no body,that is kinds of no good. I like to live with someone else,no only family, we can live with friends too. share everything such as electric bill? haha everything.... we need to talk sometimes, to be a lone sometimes good,but always feel a lone, I dont like that feeling ;-)
@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 10
I think being independent and being alone are different things. Yeah I agree with you that youngsters now a days try to be alone and independent in their life. But this theory to remain alone in whole life, is not correct. There is always some time in life that you ll denfinitely need a partner to share your views, which you cannot share with others,so I think being single whole life is not a good thinking...:)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I am still living with my family.I live with my family for financial reasons.as of now,I cannot afford to have my own place.if I can though,I would prefer to buy a real estate I can put up for rent, like an apartment or condominium.a passive source of income is really nice.also,my parents doesn't mind if I live with them,since I help with household expenses.
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
I want to live independently, not because I want to live alone. I think it is about independence that I want. It makes me more free, not because I hate my family or gets irritated when they intervene with my decisions, rather I wanted to feel the feeling of not depending on them and wanted to experience a real life.
• Philippines
31 Oct 10
hi,there are persons who want to be free and do not want commitment but this is more on men i think its very rare for a woman to be free for the rst of her life.different persons have different ways to see life and its their right to choose if they want to be free or not.but for me i want pivacy with my personal life but freedom yes also for the rest of my life but that doesnt mean freedom as a sinngle old lady.
• United States
31 Oct 10
I am living with my family right now because I cannot afford to live on my own as I am still a college student with no job. If I had a job and I could balance school and work then I would live on my own but my parents would not let me even if I could.. My parents would never let me live alone unless I was married. My parents are still old-fashioned and they do not even allow me to sleep over at my best friends home or anything!