backstabbers

Romania
November 2, 2010 1:46pm CST
I hate two faced people. many times it happend to me to consider someone my friend, that person seemed really nice and in reality they spoke bad things about me behind my back.and I found out those things from other person.do did this happen to you? to consider someone your friend and to find out that in reality they are not?
2 responses
@Carrino (26)
• Singapore
2 Nov 10
Ignore them. I experienced this several times and it sucks, trust me, people who talk bad things behind your back are not friends. Ignore them, get a true friend and live on.
• Romania
2 Nov 10
but how do you realise if someone is your rela friend or not? if you thrust them I don't think you'llk suspect that they would say bad things about me. I remember an experience that I had. my mother realised how my supposed friend really was and she told me that I shouldn't thrust her. I was like hey mum you don't know her for real, thrust me I know her better than you do. till I realised that she was right :)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
They are not your REAL FRIENDS if they keep doing that, a TRUE friend is someone who doesnt intend you any harm and that includes one who doesnt stab your back. I wont waste my time for such people, I rather be alone than finding people who worst than your enemy. These kind of people are jealous to you in many ways, cause if the're not they would not do it to you.
• Romania
2 Nov 10
yes but how do you realise they way they really are if they are really good liars? I'm that kind of people who likes to think tat all humans are good..I loike to help everyone when they need it that's why 2 times this happened to me, to consider someone my friend and find out that in reality they are not. I became more careful when choosing my friend because of that. I analyse them carefully and only if I think they are ok I allow them to get close to me and become my confident