making major decisions in life...

@sheban (28)
Philippines
November 3, 2010 12:15am CST
Truly, we all make decisions in our everday lives. From the simple choice of clothes and foods, to the complicated steps in our career and relationships. At times, i find it hard to make a major decision. There are a number of things to ponder on before making that big step and facing the consequences afterwards. I'm sure many you had gone through a tough thinking on things that really matter to you. Was your decision resulted into a positive one?Or did it make your life upside down?
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5 responses
• India
3 Nov 10
ya the major part in the life is the decision making only. in my point of view some times decision may be wrong or right we can't say. so before going to take a decision we have to take a help of our friends. by asking help to your friends or elder one we can say that there may be 70% of result will be positive. because mostly i do that only. but you don't totally depend upon them. some body likes challenges in their life for that case take a decision which you are liking. so some times you will get negative results but ultimately after some time you can take your own decision. so anything in the world it comes with experience.
@sheban (28)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
yes, i agree with you yskgandhi. Everything is an experience. Life is a learning process.
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
Hi, Life is full of challenging and there is always a time whereby we have to make decision for our own life. If small matters,then it is easy to make the final decision.When come to big matters,then I prefer to ask for others' opinion before making the final decision. I want to have more ideas and see which one is the best before I make the decision. I also hope the decision that I make is right and not making my life upside down. however that is fate.SOmetimes, you will think that it is the best decision,but whose know at last it makes your life miserable.
@sheban (28)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
So true shia, no one knows the future. Even if we are backed with information and advices from other experienced people, there are really things that will not turn out the way we expect it to be. However, that's the nature of life. Overall, we still have to make ourselves intact and remain grateful despite with our wrong decisions because afterall, we still have the lessons to be learned in every experience.
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
Not all decisions that we make will result a good outcome. The point there is in whatever decisions that we make whether it is a minor or a major decision, we always have to take responsibility for its outcome or result. That's why we always have to be cautious on making decisions because it might affect our life in a major way. Weighing things first before deciding is a must in order to avoid regretting things in end. Thank you.
@akari77 (123)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
In life there is no guarantee that all we choose will result positive. It also applies in making decisions. Whatever it gives as a result of that decision should be taken as an opportunity for new things in life. What i mean is that if a person takes it as something that makes him/her down, it will bring him/her down. It really depends upon the person perceiving the result who made the decision.
@pogi253 (1587)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
Decision-making is something we do a lot of times per day. Almost all of these decisions we make don't fall into the "hard" category, but when they do, special considerations must be made before we make them. When these decisions are really difficult, as many factors as possible must be taken into consideration before making them, as the complications could change our lives. Ultimate decisions are made almost second nature to us. We add up all the pros and cons, and whatever seems to be favored, well, then we make our decision based upon those circumstances. But sometimes it's not as easy as that. Sometimes lives are jeopardize, and we better be sure about what we're doing before making them.