A Question to The Guys

@creyos (276)
Indonesia
November 5, 2010 3:00am CST
A friend of mine told me that her boyfriend asked her about her ex boyfriends but then he seemed like he doesn't care to hear the stories. My friend was confused what and why exactly he asked that if he doesn't mean it. She was happy actually when her boyfriend asked this, but after he seemed changing his mind, she's worried and thought if she made mistakes on words or else. Guys, could you help to advise? I just advised her that it means nothing (maybe). :)
8 responses
@yhanne (18)
6 Nov 10
it's only natural,we must be prepared when it comes to things like that,even if it comes worst situation cause its better 2 let ur partner know ur fast,in that case you will know if he/she really loves you.,and he/she accepts who you are!
@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
I don't ask questions about my wife's ex or ex'es since I don't like to be asked questions about my ex either. Of course it can't be avoided that ex's topic are taken up every now and then but I'm not comfortable with the conversation especially if my wife asks if me and my ex did this and that if you know what i mean. Ex's are already part of the past and what ever happened in the past is best remembered and best kept in memory.
@anot_rf (21)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
if you love someone, do not ask her past life even beautiful or bitter. the most important is the present life taking good care of her is the right thing to do than ask more question for her past.
• Portugal
5 Nov 10
i guess that when your friend started to tell him the stories he started to feel jealous. maybe he didnt want to imagine your friend with other guys. maybe he was curious at first but when she started to talk about them he regret. guys sometimes are a bit jealous. maybe she talked about her past smiling or something and he felt insecure so that was why he didnt want to listen more. anyway she could talk with her bf and ask what happened^^
• India
5 Nov 10
Maybe that guy wanted to check on the character of your friend and that he might wanted to see if your friend's reaction when she was telling to him about her past. But if he doesn't show any interest in listening to that might mean that it would be like he didn't care much about her past and that he might just want to hear her say something to him!!
• United States
5 Nov 10
No one wants to hear about their partner's past relationships. It's not necessary to lie, but you should not give details.
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
Maybe the guy just got nothing to ask or it's just that the question instantly pop in his head, but he truly doesn't mean to ask it. Or it can be that her boyfriend is into something, maybe the question is leading to something else creyos. He may want to discover something about her girlfriend's past relationships. Anyway it is not good to make several assumptions. We really can't read people's mind, it is still best to directly ask the person involve. After all its harmless to do, right? Thank you
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 10
Hi, Your friend's boyfriend is bit weird...in the first place,he asked her girlfriend about her past and when she told him about her past, he showed no interest. So it is really hard to understand what does this man want actually. Let's advice your friend to monitor closely on this man.is he really the right man for her? ANyway, if this man really love your friend,he sure does not mind about her past and it is not important for him to know that much. As long as both of them are happy with their current life,it is more than enough.