Ex-GFs Black propaganda

Philippines
November 5, 2010 8:46pm CST
My Ex is spreading bad things about me and worse she's been talking to my mom! I don't know how to react. My reputation is not really big deal for me, but to my mom, it is. I know my mom's not going to believe her and just gonna shrug it off but what's she's doing is new to me. My previous ex's never said anything bad about me. Crazy!!! I can't believe she's making up stories.
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5 responses
• United States
6 Nov 10
Firstly you mention this is your ex-girl friend so I do not understand why she is going out of her way to speak to your mother about you. I can understand that you two are no longer together right, and she can still be amicably friendly to your mom but any dealings about you should not be her concern. So my thought is that she wants to simply hurt you in some way, and or just can't let go and likes the attention. Good luck, sometimes people do not know how to let go.
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Precisely!! I mean she really, probably, just simply hates me! I mean I have been with other girls before and she's been the only one who acted this way after a break up. Geez, I wish she'd just stop. I'm most willing to be friends with her but she's driving me crazy.
• United States
6 Nov 10
May I suggest that next time she runs to your mom and your mom is all upset about what she said that you simply do not react to what she said, by this I mean apparently she wants you hurt and in her life. So if you can some how ignore it she will there after stop, as if she really does hate you then by not seeing your reactions this will give her the sense that you simply do not care and well her attention deficit problem will divert elsewhere. Being that you mention that she is crazy even friendship you should avoid for a while Good luck to you with this.
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
Yeah, I guess you're right, she'd probably just gonna get tired of doing that. Maybe she just wants to get even. LOL
@beeh13u (1040)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
She must have love you then. Crazy in love! You tell her to stop doing that. Who broke the relationship? I think it's you because of your Ex's vendetta. How about meeting her up? It's better to face her than giving her a call. You should ask her why she is doing it, OK? I'm wondering what you did. You must have hurt her badly or she's just a lunatic. :)
• Philippines
6 Nov 10
I guess you're right. I should straighten some things with her. I broke up with her 'cause she's too insane about so many things and it's taking its toll on my relationship with other people.
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
6 Nov 10
Hi Sundownkid, I've seen this a lot. Usually it is the one responsible for the breakup that makes up the stories and all. They know they did something wrong and they don't want people to think badly of them so they feel the need to make you look bad or at least try to. The usually will talk to your closest friends and family. She is feeling guilty I bet.
@celticeagle (121067)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Nov 10
I had this same thing happen to me when I left my husband. He and I frequented the same bar and he told my new boyfriends things about me that weren't true. Funny how men believe other men. I figure that if people want to believe rumors and things that aren't true it tells me alot about their character and I back away from anyway. I would think this would blow over shortly. Try to be calm and let her do as she pleases. Tell your mom the truth. Not much else you can do but bide your time. And don't do anything she can feed off of.
@stylewaves (1063)
• India
6 Nov 10
Go straightly to her , and give a Big slap , the rest will be automatically done !