friends in mylot

Philippines
November 7, 2010 1:40am CST
whenever i see messages from mylot that somebody wants to be my friend, i feel happy. im quite intrigue as well as to the reason they have chosen me as a friend. im quite flattered that even if they dont know me personally, they havens seen me..stil they want to make friends... do you fell happy too having a lot of friends here in mylot? why do you think they choose you to be their friends?
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25 responses
@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
7 Nov 10
Yes, I agree with you, I also feel happy when I see friend request from mylotters. Actually it means if you have more friends then you have more discussions and idea around and you ll get more exposure of your own idea, I think have more friends is good for having the exposure of your idea....:0 Have a nice day...
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
correct..i thought that probably they have seen one of my discussions and kinda liked it and thought of adding me as a friend....
@saqi78 (1405)
• Malaysia
7 Nov 10
Just like I added you now and I got good ideas and discussions from you... Thanks for accepting friend request....
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
hello cyrri! well,it is fun to see friend requests.that;s what i felt when i was newbie here. but i think it also depends on what others feel for adding you as a friend.sometimes,there are people who feel happy interactig with you,which is nice so they will add you.and know you more by interacting in your every post here. there are also people who just add you cause they wanted to have referrals on their online stuffs. you just have to think first before accepting them. it's all up to you,after all!
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
that's what i thought too. and that's sometimes why i invite others to be my friends as well.
@annavi23 (6302)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
we all have freedom to choose who to add or not. if you really want to be friends with others because you want to interact and know them more,that's good thing. but i don't like people who just invite and collect friends just as like trophies and having no post at all. what's their purpose then,right?
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
when I was new also here joy and happiness I felt.. I told myself why only now I known this mylot and share my ideas to other friends. Here I feel in one community which all are together and sharing between each other.. Welcome and see you around... accept my request as my friend also if you don't mind...
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
accepted..thanks for adding me in your friendlist.
@doc_air (53)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
good for you. I just joined myLot few days ago and I only have one friend. I wish they will invite me too. Hehe
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
i'll invite you as my friend...happy mylotting...
@chrislotz (8203)
• Canada
14 Nov 11
I used to be really happy when someone requested my friendship here in mylot but now it is nothing special anymore because now that I have been a member with mylot for almost 5 years if I were to say yes to everyone of them I would have thousands of friends on my list and that would defeat the purpose of having friends here. The reason we have friends here in mylot is so we can chat back and forth with them and post responses to their discussions to help them earn money as well as earn money yourself. So if you have thousands or even hundreds of friends on your list you are going to have thousands or hundreds of disscussions to respond to and you couldn't keep up to them all so what would be the point. I used to say yes to everyone that requested me before but I finally went through all the hundreds of friends I said yes to and got rid of a lot of them because most of them aren't even here anymore. Now I keep my friend's list to a reasonable amount so I can be a true friend to them and respond to their discussions. I also don't request friendships anymore because I just have enough for now that I am loyal to and can't take on anymore and still be loyal to all of them. Cheers and Happy mylotting my friend Chris
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
10 Nov 10
I love my 'Lot' friends! There are some who have asked for my friendship for spam reasons and they are the ones I disapprove pretty quickly! I think that people read each other’s posts and relate to one or two things there or just enjoy someone’s writing. It is difficult to put into words what draws one person to another. I used to think it was chemistry and I have to wonder if there is such a thing online too...
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
8 Nov 10
hi cyrri_ako, now a day people are extending their relations with other people,i too was struggled for friends 6 months on the net,but i could not,after joining in mylot i have earned lot of friends more than 500 still i am getting friendship requests,who are responding our messages,responses,we opt for their friendship,just like that they also like us,have a nice day
@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Nov 10
hi cyrri ako I am very happy to have a lot of friends here. they have become very dear to me. I hope they chose me because they'liked mydiscussions and my posting not just because I am one of the oldest here but it does not matter as I am happy having good f riends here in my lot.
@34momma (13896)
• United States
8 Nov 10
the longer you are here you will see some people just want to be friends to send you a PM to ask you to join this or that. those people get deleted really fast. then there are those who really just want to be mylot friends. they want to see what you post and they want you to come reply to their post. now those are true mylot friends
8 Nov 10
with mylot being worldwide it is great to meet new friends from different areas of the world and to find out new things. i really do like the friends i have met on here and i have not been here that long.
@freymind (1352)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
theres a lot of reasons why some add friends here in my lot. but if you are going to ask me, i add people if i like the discussions they post and if they are sensible people. like posting discussions that is going to be relevant to everyone. i do feel happy when someone adds me up but i'm getting frustrated on some that keeps on sending messages about referrals... stop it...
@ybong007 (6659)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
It's OK to make friends here just don't be too happy because there are people who want to be friends with you so that they can spam later.
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I feel happy if many myLotters would send a friend request to me.. Yes, it's very flattering that even if they don't know you personally still they want to befriend you. MyLot is really a nice place to stay with all these kind hearted members :)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Well, I choose friends because I like the posts they start, or I like their responses, or I feel like they have a nice interesting personality. Sometimes if I read a post or response I feel a depth that I need to run to the profile and check out their other posts and responses. Sometimes I choose friends, because they have offered compassion and kindness to others or myself. Sometimes its because we like to talk about the same things and I feel we have some things in life in common. Also, if they are talking about God, bible, Jesus, christians or a religion of any kind, I am interesting in the beliefs and want to know more about them. There's just all kinds of reasons why I chooose my friend.
@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
8 Nov 10
I get happy when there is a friends request too.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
7 Nov 10
Well..In this site I don't think you have to know people personally. I feel very happy everytime someone has send me a friend request, because I can maby learn something from them, and we can share our ideas, and so on. I don't need to have many friends here in myLot, but just some, who is active and wants to discuss here on myLot and maybe can give me some new ideas.
• Portugal
7 Nov 10
sometimes people see our answers in discussions and like it and invite us to be friends^^ i guess thats the way that they use the most to invite us to be friends with them. i also be happy when receive some invitations :) i feel happy bcs that means that people like me. im sure that they invited you bcs they like the way you answer and your personality seems nice^^
• India
7 Nov 10
I have received many friend's request and I have sent out as many. Usually I prefer to have friends, whose interests matches mine. There are friends with I find difficult to interact because their subjects do not interest me.
• China
7 Nov 10
I am a new member,so haven't any friend!But I think it will be many friends later!I like it very much~
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
7 Nov 10
I am also happy, if one member of MyLot, wanting to be my friend. I never think of, why they chose me as a friend. The important thing for me, I have many friends in myLot.