Love is a give and take relationship.
By joysantos
@joysantos (131)
Philippines
November 8, 2010 2:34am CST
I always believe that in order for a relationship to succeed, it must be a give and take cycle. But as the years pass by, I believe that you will not always wait for what you've given to be given back if you really love a person. You must give without waiting for anything in return.
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5 responses
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
i also believe in that bcuz it takes two to tango and if only one is trying to work out a relationship and the other one doesnt have effort, the other person will eventually get tired.
@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I totally agree with you on all counts. But I think we lovers as humans still, still expects sometimes something in return, which is just normal.We whine, we complain, we get insecured, all maybe just manifestations of being in love.If two people has made this policy at the start of their being a couple, it is more likely that they will be able to fix anything when storms is trying to rock their love.
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
It is nothing but natural for us to expect something in return. But if you are accepting your partner's other way of showing how he loves you, yes, we will get disappointed but will still love them for that. And sometimes, they surprise us with their own ways of reciprocating what we have given them.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
9 Nov 10
In order ro a relationship to succeed and last you need to have both give and take. Love can't be onesided. You have to be willing to give of your heart and to accept love in return.
@phong1040572 (672)
• Thailand
10 Nov 10
i am totally agree with your opion about that mate. love is for give, not for be given. when we love, we do anything to make our parner happy. when his/her happy , we happy more than his/her.
@olgiana (241)
• Mexico
8 Nov 10
Relationship is a voluntary long tern investment with a high risk. You will never get back as much as You have given but You should learn the joy of giving and making your partner happy.
If You give, you will be given back, but not necessarily form the same person.
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
It will always be a risk falling in love. Cause you either succeed or get hurt. But you will always find your happiness in the end.
