Younger boy friends
By mae_dyrish
@mae_dyrish (237)
Philippines
November 8, 2010 2:58am CST
Normally, girls love guys who are elder than them. Moreover, the world does not agree to such a relation. Would you ever fall in love with a guy who is much younger to you? If so, have you thought of the good and the bad things about it. Do you think if is wrong to have love with a young guy?
Well for me it depends if he is younger than me or i am younger than him as long as i love him why not. There are some instances that having a younger boy friends is not good because mostly we are mature than them and they cannot easily handle such situation. But well, as long as you are happy with him why not love him an give your full heart to him as long as he loves you and makes you happy in all the way.
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12 responses
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
As they always say, age in a relationship does not matter. In always depend with the level of maturity of both parties. Because if a girl is more mature than the guy, it will only be like baby sitting. For me I prefer a guy who is more mature and older than me but not that old, a 2 year age gap will be fine.
@mae_dyrish (237)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
yes probably you are right on your idea. More on baby sitting if you will into younger guys but still it depends because there are younger guys sometimes mature enough to face some responsibilities in life.Thanks for the reply.
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@dheerajlko (471)
• India
8 Nov 10
its is good for a while but u should not go too long from it so b kool and live ur life way u like
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I am in love with a younger guy right now and he is my current boyfriend. I do not know why although I can say that I prefer older guys than I am as my boyfriend. Right now, we had no issue about the age gap. But of course, like other relationships, you cannot avoid that there are petty quarrels. Almost all relationships experience that so I think it is based on the age.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
11 Nov 10
since im 29 it would be hard for me to say yes to a MUCH younger guy without going to underage lol.. a few years i can see but like an 18-20 year old no i doubt he would have the maturity for me.. im attracted to maturity so it woulndt be more of a choice against them because of their age but because of their personality since god knows there are people older than me that act half my age!
If i were to fall in love with someone much younger than myself, i wouldn;t care too much about age. The heart chooses who you love and not how old they might be.
@janron29 (266)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I will be speaking based on my experience. I was having a boyfriend before who was two years old than me. He was so immature and childish. He was always jealous most of the time. I decided to end our relationship. I was already tired adjusting on his attitude. I am married now with a guy who is five years older than me. He is more mature and have a sense of responsibility. I prefer a guy who is older than me.
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@thinkingoutloud (6127)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
I have been in a long-term relationship with a man 12 years younger than me... we met when I was 37 and he was 25. Maturity levels are certainly a factor in any relationship and, as others have said, you can be with someone who is a great deal older but they can also be childish or at least much more immature. The success of a relationship really has to be based on the whole individuals involved... not age or any one specific factor.
@dianagnes (1088)
• Singapore
8 Nov 10
Yes.I agree.At first i'm just into guys who are older than me and close one eyes to have a relationship with younger guys.But now,i won't object to that.I don't mind younger guys as age does not really matter to overcome Love.It's true that girl brain functions maturely than a guy for about five years age gap i think?..Hmm
Its quite acceptable to have a relationship with younger guy but for me in an instances where the guys is not too young for the girls.Like at least 3-4 years age gap between a young guy & an older girl.It's directly fine.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Hi Mae Dyrish,
I really honestly don't think it matters much as long as they are both consenting adults. We are all different in our personalities. Who am I to judge who someone else chooses to date? As far as I'm concerned it is up to them to decide how happy they are or are not in their relationship...not me or anyone else. I have dated younger men and older men. Some women would never date a younger man and that is fine but it doesn't mean that it's wrong to.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
A long time ago a May-December affair is unacceptable in the society. However, as time changes, people came to accept that we can't confine love in what the society dictates to be morally or socially correct. My husband is 3 years younger than me and we were never judged by anybody. I think it's because the 3-year gap isn't that obvious physically. We're both happy and never encountered any problems due to our age gap.
@okkypratama (39)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 10
It is no problem for girl to love younger guy. That important is each love another.
