Cheating in a relationship

Philippines
November 8, 2010 6:04am CST
Can a guy notice that his girl is cheating on him? Because for us girls, we know that our guy is cheating on us and we can feel it eventhough we haven't seen him with other girls, because we have this girls instinct.
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@asendud (318)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 10
i don't know. but i always have a bad felling about her. I was so scared she is cheating and i will over like stupid dumb goat. so that's why i always guess her was cheating when she go some where without me.
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
so it means to say that you don't trust your girlfriend?
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 10
The word"instinct"is interesting. It happened to me before I broke up. I felt that there was "something wrong"with him, but I decided not to ask my ex bout it until I accidentally read a text message from one of his older sisters suggesting that he can`t have special relationship with one of her distant relatives, and not to create the existing problems ( my ex was my in-law`s cousin, and there was a problem as the relationship between his fam and my in-law`s not that good for some reasons, so complicated). I said to myself"What the hell?AM I THE PROBLEM?". I asked him but he denied it. OK, no probs, everything`s back to normal, until I asked one of her sisters then he broke me up. He didn`t answer my phone, message until he admitted that he had another girl. And....a few months later, he sent me a message saying that"We broke up not caused by another girl". DAMN!!!!What a cheater!!!he`s handsome, and I thought he`s the best for me, but now I thanked GOD for separating me from him. As Daughtry says in"OVER YOU","When you slammed the front door shut, a lot of others opened up ,so did my eyes so I could see that you never were the best for me". It was in 2007, after that I am single again and I am sure GOD will give me the BEST.
• United States
11 Nov 10
I think everyone has a feeling at one point in time when they are being cheated on. I know I have never been wrong about it.
@thanks1961 (7046)
• India
8 Nov 10
Hi dear, To a certain extent you are correct. That means man or guys are good in acting as compared to girls. In my view it is true. Many are blaming that girl has cheated and man are absolutely error free. Even though guys are good in dealing such situations, no one will get a doubt on them. At the same time, they will easily manage the situation. It is an inbuilt concept that girls should be punctual and morale and they can’t do or behave like that. But of course, it is there. As compared to guys they are still smarter and are capable of dealing such situations. So, it is time for you people to act smart and get ready for a training. Regards, Thank-s
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Some signs of cheating stand out more than others. Some cheaters will have their guilt written on their faces while others can hide it so well. Nobody wants to be cheated on in a relationship. We often don't see it happening until it is too late to put the pieces back together again.
• India
8 Nov 10
Girls tend to be craftier than boys nowadays,its their belief that everyone is ought to use them and they have to race ahead and they are par with men so both the partners may cheat in a relationship. But girls who are really into some boys tend to be hyper about his company with other girls and end up losing the relationship. But overall its crucial for both the partners to understand each other, if your partner is cheater then you need not be depressed, just find the next right one he or she might even be the perfect match.