I am concerned about how i treat others not by others to me !!!!!

Hi paula, yes well worded paula, even i get annoyed with others still i will be friendly with them, i am concerned only their goodness and how i treat them and not how they treat me because i will not expect anything from anyone so no question of worry. Thanks for your sharing. Have a good day.

I have in the past tried to brush off, but it has hurt me a lot, repressed feelings dont help. Saying leave it to god makes me wonder where god was a person was dying after having been troubled so much. I will react as I feel. If it looks odd in the society so be it. I have reasons, and very concrete ones.

And Jotomy, not everybody is alike, isn't it? Some people are more bad than others. It just happens that my folks are a bunch of dirty rotten soundrels.

Hi vandana, yes all are not alike, in the family itself we will have different mentalities though they are our brother and sisters or our family members. You are so open and frank. I appreciate your response.

Hi lingli, Yes, well worded. We all know some people will be different they may not match us still we treat them good. Since we have a attitude of loving others since we learned only to love others. Thanks for your nice response. Have a great day.

Hi GardenGerty, true we are not responsible for the attitude or the behaviour of others. They will have their own style of talking or behaving. Some people are so polite and some are not. We can't say anything about it. We must concerned only good about others and how we treat them. Thanks for your sharing. Have a great day.

Hi keep_onwatch, well said. Yes there is a saying in Bible. Actually these words i heard in the Church on that day, so i thought to share with you all. And also some of my friend attitude also is like that she talks sweetly but what happened she got engagement she asked us come but she didn't given the address all the friends are at my home to go there but no one knows the address properly then how come we go, why she didn't attend to our calls so we thought she must be thinking that her status is low compared to us and that is why she didn't given us address. But we never thought in that way because in friendship we all are equal no money matters i never see the status, we all see the heart how they are. Next day we given her left and right for what she did. But we all like her because she is our friend. I was little annoyed with her behaviour. Thanks for your sharing. Have a good day.

Hi jai, see jai, we have different kinds of people around us, in our house itself we have different mentalities but we have to cop up and move with them we may not like their attitude still we move because we love them. Love will forgive all other mistakes of our beloved ones. We are not concerned about their mistakes we only concerned about them and try to change their attitude and make them to good. Also we have many friends all friends will not be alike different different attitudes with different styles they have. Yet we try to move with them though they hurt us with their words. You have a very good principle that you live each day as if it is the last day of my life. True we doesn't know when our life will ends up. Each minute is not ours what we have now is only ours and like to live happy and make others also happy. Every person will have good and bad sides. I will take only good side of the persons. Thanks for your nice response. I really impressed. God bless you and your family. Take care. Have a wonderful day.

Hello Jo, Thanks for the appreciation. And that's it,another way of treating our loved ones,friends and enemies is to appreciate them. Yes,people who doesn't like us (enemy,in the sense that they doesn't like us,but for us they're not enemy anyway,not so close friends maybe hehehe)we need to appreciate people who doesn't like us that much. By doing so,we will be able to learn things from them too,that we can never please everybody no matter how much we do our best and be good to them. Because some people wants more and more each time we give them small favor. Small favors become bigger and heavier,and once we failed their expectations,all the goodness that we've done are forgotten and for them,we look bad (after all the good things/favor) So,we really need to adjust from each individual person in our lives,loved ones,relatives,friends and not so close friends

hello again Jo, Thanks for the mark and hope you have great day always

Hi KrauseHome, yes i too agree for this, good response, have a great day.

Hi kala, yes according to the changes in the people attitude and the behaviour i feel now we also should change. But what to do i am still like that same as i said, thats what i want to feel to change my attitude. I think after so much of experience we become so bold and hard too. Thanks for your nice response. Have a good day.

Hi Hatley, thank you so much. Yes these words will give some people refreshment whoever betrayed. Have a good day Hatley. I pray god to give you good health.

Hi jugsjugs, i am sorry to hear this, why some people do such things i couldn't understand. Thanks for your sharing. Have a good day.

Hi dorannmwin, i felt happy to know that the way you learned. Yes even we ourselves must teach our children to grow in the same manner then they never feel sad when they got hurt by some one. Thanks for your response. Have a good day.

Hi hardworkinggurl, true, everyone will have their own kind of character. We must adjust with the members leaving their characters how they are. Thanks for your response. Have a wonderful day.

Hi ariyanti, Happy new year, Nice to hear from you this response. Have a great days ahead.